If she says yes, it will be awkward at work. If she says no, there will be tension between us. If she says yes, and then we subsequently break up, there will be tension. Suggestions? PS: I like her, and I get the feeling she likes me, too.
2007-08-30 14:17:53 · 11 answers · asked by aceventuradude 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
not unless if you want to be looking for a new job if the relationship goes South. if you love your job and want to keep it, do not risk an office relationship.
2007-08-30 14:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by vixen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Work is not your life. Ask her out. The only tension that will exist if she says no or if you break up will come from you if you think that way. Make up your mind that if she says no or if you break up you'll behave like a gentleman and there won't be any trouble.
And just think...if she says no now, she may change her mind later if you don't behave like a jerk.
2007-08-30 21:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by GeriGeri 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a romantic at heart, and I don't want to be a downer, but be very careful. I once dated a co-worker at a small company, and it did not work out at all. I was lucky that she left a short time after we broke up, or else it would have been very awkward.
We were also peers at work, so that eliminated one additional complication. You don't want to get involved with someone who might end up working for you or end up becoming your supervisor. That might violate company policy.
2007-08-30 21:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by Sock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you would be putting her in a position where she cannot answer yea or nay without drama. I would let it go. The world is wide, and there is a reason why people say that mixing work with intimacy is a bad idea.
2007-08-30 21:24:31 · answer #4 · answered by nutsfornouveau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be vary careful . An old man once told me this when i asked him the same question. Don't Get Your A** where you get your Paycheck.
2007-08-30 21:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by 60659 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If there aren't horrible outcomes of going out with her then you should definetly ask her out. But make sure you are positive she likes you.
2007-08-30 21:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by Andy500 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fish off the company pier
2007-08-30 21:21:21 · answer #7 · answered by Bobby J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't date anyone at work.
If it goes bad, you have to see them every day at work.
2007-08-30 21:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by sister_godzilla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it
2007-08-30 21:21:14 · answer #9 · answered by jrsygrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU SHOULD ASK HER OUT. SHE WILL PROBALY SAY YES. TELL HER YOU WANT WORK AND DATING TO BE TOTALY SEPERATE.
2007-09-02 22:23:40 · answer #10 · answered by donielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋