I am very extremely curious about this! What kind woman or girl is she? To go out with a Married Man, either for sexual fun [OR] just plain dating only!! I don't get it! But!!! Since my wife DOES NOT like to go out with me DANCING, SHOOTING SOME POOL, CLUBBING, RIDING THE KAMIKAZE CARNIVAL RIDES, DRINKING, BAR HOPPING, TO THE MOVIES, BOWLING, HIKING, ROCK CLIMBING, PARACHUTING, Big Parties, Halloween Costume Parties, New Years Parties, etc,etc. [One of each, at least once a year] I wouldn't mind dating a much super high energy woman/girl-someone who can keep up with me at times. I am NOT a grumpy, old fashion, old gizzard, old fart, couch potato, at home tiresome man. I am 40 and I still enjoy having super blasting good good times more than a 18 yr old teenager guy.
2007-08-30 13:20:06 · 19 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
skunk pie ..."Sorry dude, I was just in it for the sex."...so thats why she dump me the other day. lol hahaha She just wanted me sex thats all.....Now I understand why she did it! lol haha
2007-08-30 14:42:30 · update #1
Damm skunk pie! lol hahahaha [It's the casual girlfriend that I'd have a laugh at while stealing her boyfriend for awhile. ] U R way too funny gurl....Thanks guys! :o)
2007-08-30 14:46:13 · update #2
teenie I don't like whores, because they have diseases, hiv, aids and other stds. Now thats disgusting and super nasty and grosh to have sex with someone who is unhealthy, unprotected and not clean-sexually. I rather stick to a one-man woman only! Sex is much more enjoyable with a Super Extremely Clean Person!
2007-08-30 14:58:14 · update #3
I have read all that you have written, and I have to say even a person with a std is clean. Some just don't know where they got it. Trusting the other person and not knowing if they have it also.
Now, to answer your question, You should come out and tell your wife that you will do these things without her and find the friends who will enjoy your company. That she can either come along and have fun or she can stay home and sew.
Also, even if a person has a std, they ARE STILL CLEAN.
2007-08-31 03:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The kind of women who would go out with a married man is interested in a casual sexual relationship in which there is no risk that the man is going to develop serious feelings for her unless she's somehow emotionally retarded. Trust me, when they say that men can control their emotions after sex, it's a total stereotype and only vaguely reflects the truth. Many a man, even after one night stands, claim to have feelings and a woman has to say, "Sorry dude, I was just in it for the sex."
Men are too easy sexually and with their emotions. A lot of single guys are boring because of this. There is no challenge. Married men or men who are otherwise taken provide a challenge. When I met my fiance, he was dating someone else, but that just got me interested. The challenge it provided was just enough resistance before jumping in the sack. Women do like to chase instead of always being chased.
I never did date or sleep with a married man though, but I can imagine in America where most marriages end in divorce, that this sort of thing is some what acceptable. After all, it's not the mistress who has responsibilities towards or promises to the wife. In my country the divorce rate is not so high and I do respect serious relationships, but that doesn't mean that all women do especially in America where it seems no one respects it and the main focus is always on the individual. It's the casual girlfriend that I'd have a laugh at while stealing her boyfriend for awhile.
2007-08-30 13:54:41 · answer #2 · answered by skunk pie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why did you marry your wife then? Didn't you have the same issues due to your differences in socializing when you dated? I am sorry to hear that you guys are so different. Spending time together doing all those things is a great part of relationship. Maybe you should divorce your wife? It seems that you have a lot of hatred for her. Or are you just venting here?
A girl who would go out knowingly that a guy is married should be shameful of herself. She is selfish, immature, and inconsiderating about other people's feelings. On the other hand, the same could be said about you! Cheating is never an option.
2007-08-30 13:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by terliuke 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you want to know what kind of woman goes out with a married man i can give you a name and state she lives in. She is the whore my husband had an affair with some 10 years back her name is Hope ....... she lives in Baltimore MD she would be more then happy to please you and do anything else you see fit. If you are willing she sure will be giving.
2007-08-30 13:54:57 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who dates a married person is not someone I would want to be in company with. I believe in having some morals.
2007-08-30 13:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women that date married men are total LOSERS - they lack self-esteem, motivation, personality, and the ability to be realistic about life, love, and expectations.
Since your wife clearly is not what you want her to be, get a divorce and go find yourself a new "party" girl - that will not guarantee you any more happiness, but it will spare your wife the drama and heartbreak of finding out her husband is a cheating lying dog - or is at least seriously wanting to be.
2007-08-30 13:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
ok the sex part makes the rest of your email look like you are trying to justify seeking out an extra marital affair? I would tell you its a shame that you didn 't marry someone with your interests but if she used to hang out with you and now doesn't it would seem reasonable to ask her "WHY" Possibly after gaining insight you two can reach an agreement that would make you both happy versus looking for a f*ck buddy who likes coasters....
2007-08-30 13:32:48 · answer #7 · answered by bikinibabewannabe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Rolls my eyes , and here I thought this was a serious question. Do your wife a favour and leave before you drag a 3rd party into your miserable mid-life crisis , seriously selfish.
2007-08-30 14:06:06 · answer #8 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you have in common ? Sounds like your wife better wake up. She needs to wake up and smell the roses. What is your wife doing when your daydreaming ?
2007-08-30 13:32:43 · answer #9 · answered by margo322 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't get why a woman would date a married man but in the same breath it sure sounds like you are ASKING for one to date YOU........ women seek married men for companionship without strings....that companionship MAY be limited to just "FRIENDLY PATTER", or sex.... or both. It's a tough thing when you get older to be alone but married men are relatively SAFE to date... no strings and no illnesses to spread around....
2007-08-30 13:30:43 · answer #10 · answered by LittleBarb 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋