is it normal to feel heartache the only way I can discribe it over anime because I realy realy want to live in there world which can never happen and even if I did it wouldent be as it seems, it may sound like im a loser absessed with anime but I just wish more than anything to live in certain anime worlds or even games, if I stop watching anime I get realy sad and lonly and feel realy wierd 2, does anyone else also feel like this, and is it normal?
2007-08-30 12:55:40 · 5 answers · asked by Max Y 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
No it is not normal. You need to interact with live human beings and lean social skills. Normal behaviour is being with other human beings, not dreaming of living in the world of anime. Join a club or group and be around other people. Form friendships, get a job, keep yourself in life and away from the television, or you won't have a life.
2007-08-30 13:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 10⤊ 1⤋
its actually more normal than u think, just like some people have the desire to be wags, or celebrities, or movie starts or harry potter or james bond, its normal to wish you were in a different reality, the heart ache possibly signifies that you are coming to a point in ur (i dont want to say obsession) with anime where you realise it cannot come true, pretty soon you will notice this love for anime becomes more controlable, to prevent the heartache, watch and read anime, if thats what makes u happy, but you shoud probably spend more time ooking at you rea life,
the reason you like anime so much is bcause of the perfection it percieves, whils in rea life hardly anything is perfect, when you come to the point of realisng that things dont have to be perfect, or start noticing the imperfections of anime, things will get better, other than that its perfectly normal, IF ITS TAKING UP A HUGE PART OF YOUR LIFE AND PREVENTING YOU FROM HAVING A SOCIAL LIFE, YOU SHOULD PROBABY SEE A COUNSEOR.
2007-08-30 13:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by Xx~lovely~xX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with wishing you could be part of this world, the reality of everyday life can be grim and being part of a pretend or fantasy world is something I am sure many people think about and wish for. I would look at things from a different perspective, there are many people out there for you to meet, don't allow yourself to feel lonely and iscolated when there is a world of opportunities outside.
This fantasy world is unattainable as it is not real, it is something to aspire to though, perhaps the anime world reflects a reality you wish we all had here, a better place with better people. There is nothing wrong with wanting that.
2007-08-30 13:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by peroxide.pixie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have felt like that before, but not over anime. i understand the feeling you describe. believe me when i say you won't feel like that forever. try to find something else to distract you, even if it is only for an hour or so a day. you will soon find that your feelings will subside and you can watch it and just enjoy it for what it is.
2007-08-30 13:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by val f1 nutter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahaha, I felt the same way every time I read the latest Harry Potter, lol. I guess we're just nerds. ;)
2007-08-30 13:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by a*perfect*teardrop 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋