2007-08-30 12:40:16 · 24 answers · asked by electrode e 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wouldn't think so. I would come closer to thinking that she is taking her time as we all should before trying to settle down.
2007-08-30 12:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A few possible reasons why a woman who is considered beautiful may not have a partner:
She may be super-busy with her studies or pursuing a career...and she doesn't want to have complications or ties that dating brings.
She may be caring for children or aging parents and doesn't have time to date. She just may be very close to her family of origin and doesn't see the need to go on dates. This happens more often than one thinks. If she comes from a traditional "old world" family...they may even be preventing her from dating.
She may live in a town with very few men within her age range. This happens a lot in very rural areas.
She may be an athlete training for an event.
If she is Catholic, she may be a nun who dresses in regular clothes and lives in the community instead of in a convent...or a layperson who is a "consecreted virgin" If she is Protestant, she could be a member of the various faith communities that don't encourage dating. Because of the popularity of the "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" or "True Love Waits" moveent, many different types of Christians, male and female, beautiful and ugly, are eschewing dating these days.
She may be a closeted lesbian.
She may be in "unrequited" love with someone who is not attainable...usually a married man, someone in prison, or even a celebrity. Sounds silly, but it happens all the time
She may be grieving the loss of a partner through death or divorce...and feels she can never find love again. With this recent Iraq war that is a very strong possibility.
She may be a "swinger" or polyamorous...and doesn't want to be tied down to one person.
She might be really stuck up or have a bad personality.
She must might be a "psycho" bunny boiler that no man in his right mind would ever date.
She may be someone for whom alcohol or drugs or gambling is more appealing than dating...but on the other hand, she may be a recovering addict for whom dating is just another thing that could keeps getting in the way of her recovery...rare but sometimes this happens.
She may be a survivor of sexual abuse, or had been raped, and is now afraid to date. That happens more often than some think.
Possibly she thinks she is "ugly" and has no self-confidence where men are concerned.
She may be painfully shy.
but then maybe she just plain doesn't WANT to because all the men who approach her are only interested in her looks...and it's put her off dating. I known of several women for whom this has been the case.
Whatever the reason, there is nothing wrong with someone being single...and it's really nobody's business.
2007-08-30 19:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Y do guys assume that? She might not want a bf or husband. She might not be attracting the kind of guys she's attracted to. Falling in love with the right person is not as easy as it sounds. There are many factors that go into love and settling down, not just looks, or sexuality. Or even personality. All these have to come together, and even economics might play a role. There's so much to consider in marriage, because it's about building a life, not just being in love, and if ur not compatitble with the person, and don;t want to work things out, how are u gonna survive?
2007-08-30 19:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a thing wrong with being a beautiful woman who has neither a boyfriend or husband...and just happens to be straight. She just hasn't found anyone that she is interested in or has a lot going on in her life and hasn't the time for a relationship.
2007-08-30 19:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, maybe there is something wrong with man around her. Why men think a woman needs a man at her side always? A strong, confident woman does not need anyone on her side to make her feel good. Men do.
2007-08-30 20:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by NA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY does there have to be something wrong with her? Maybe she CHOOSES to not have a boyfriend or a husband. What is wrong with YOU to ASSume there would be something wrong with a woman who doesn't have a man?
2007-08-30 22:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is still recovering from her last relationship. Maybe she is too busy to get involved. Maybe she has not met the right person and would rather be alone than with some jerk.
There are plenty of reasons why an attractive woman (or man) does not have a partner.
2007-08-30 19:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by Running Gal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that was me until I reached 27. Now Im 31 w/3 kids like.....damn, it IS something wrong with me........Just jokin! I think that it is absolutely normal, maybe the woman chooses not to subject herself to some of the BS that the men she meets gives her.
2007-08-30 20:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by mrsclh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, being in the relationship does not mean that there is nothing wrong with them, the answer really is it all depends on who can appreciate her and put up with her. Some girls are not pretty, nor nice in personality but they are with someone, it's all just who ends up with who and who are happy with what they have..
2007-08-30 19:50:18 · answer #9 · answered by LadyM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. 2 points
2007-08-30 19:51:07 · answer #10 · answered by Lucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong is with you that you ask this question. She is a 'straight woman' by nature seldom liked by men.
2007-08-30 19:44:50 · answer #11 · answered by sv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋