if my family member died should I smile or cry?
2007-08-30 12:27:09 · 7 answers · asked by Joah 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Smile as in be happy for them.
2007-08-30 12:27:38 · update #1
yes, theyre in a better place now!
2007-08-30 12:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the third question you've asked about crying. I hope some of the very good answers in the other two will help you to realize that what you ask is a very personal thing. You can only do what you feel sincerely; it's your choice.
There is no absolute "right" or "wrong," as long as you're true to yourself.
I'm suddenly wondering if all these questions have a deeper meaning? If, perhaps, your questions are not so much for the opinions, (or reinforcement), of others--but that you might have conflicting feelings of your own.
2007-09-01 22:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by Valac Gypsy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Smile. They are off to heaven, a place where they are finally stress free and free from all the worries that have hindered them from having a good life on earth. I'm sure you will want them to be happy somewhere else. When they die, it is the most peaceful moment of their lives as they are rid of all evil. :) So smile...
2007-08-30 22:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by UnspokenShadow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy. They have been released from the day to day suffering that comes about for all of us.
If you feel that grieving is appropriate, set a specific amount of time and then move on with your life. I have never met anyone who wanted those who are left behind to suffer indefinitely at their passing.
2007-08-30 19:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cry man why in the world would someone smile
2007-08-30 19:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you, your culture and your personal circumstance. There is no right or wrong in this case.
2007-08-30 20:18:04 · answer #6 · answered by ydrisil 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i lost my dad in march i still cry sometimes
2007-08-30 19:36:10 · answer #7 · answered by andy t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋