Lack of DIRECTION, Lack of DISCERNMENT, Lack of SATISFACTION, Lack of ACCEPTANCE, Leads to LACK of HAPPINESS?

Question

which one equals to unhappiness?
(as opposed to Lack of Love, Lack of Hope, Lack of Faith, etc)

Answer 1

i think if i'll say that u should never e unhappy or something ... then I'll be lying. because hey --- we're human...and humans aren't God. So we are unhappy sometimes. And between all those big words I just want to tell u a simple face. Life doesn't use words to tell you what's going to happen to your tomorrow. It doesn't come around just passing by your house and decides to pay you a visit to tell you that you'r father's going to die tomorrow so get ready. Or you're hed will hurt a lot tomorrow so go get an appointment with a doctor. Or maybe even that you'll lose everything tomorrow so better get some back up. No...it doesn't. Damn I wish it did. But it doesn't. What life uses is a little things called endurance. Yes...endurance. Endurance to test your endurance. To test how much you can expect and accept. How much? And how much can a human. Well there are 3 types of human beings this Life had witness during the proccess of endurance. The first type; the ones who expect too much and then are not ready to accept the unexpected. The second type: the ones who don't expect much but neither do accept much. The third type thought LIFE was pretty impressed with. She she that they were probably the only ones that surived endurance. Even though she does say that they are getting lesser and lesser. The third type : The ones who don't expectations and when it comes to accepting...they have no problem with it...because they have nothing to accept. Nothing to say..."Fine then...so this is what I will live with from now on." Because they only expect unexpecting acceptions. Confused? Maybe not. But if you are...the simplest way to put it is that is that expectations and acceptations equals to unhappiness. And if you can learn to be that thrid type of person then Life will smile at you. And you know how you'll know....? Well....I don't think I need to tell you. :-)
So yes...do smile...do laugh...do love...and do live. But sometimes....those tears mean the diamonds that are forever....sometimes just need to fall out of that heart that's carried so much for a long time. And that's why sometimes when I feel that today I feel a little full in the heart...I cry. Not because of unhappiness. But because of the completion I feel in my self. That acceptance and the expectance that I behold in myself. So when I'm done crying...I feel a little lighter and suddenly I smile...because I'm happy that I haven't cried because of unhappiness...but I've cried just to make the heart a little lighter and ready for another endurance of completion.
:-)

Answer 2

This is a tough one. Let's see, lack of discernement is not the answer, for quite often ignorance is bliss. Lack of acceptance is not the answer, for people can be most happy within themselves without the need for others approval, and lack of direction also falls under the category of ignorance is bliss.

Therefore, in my opinion there is another state that leads to a lack of happiness. And that directs me to the state of mind. The mind is a very powerful force. It determines and controls our emotions and outlook on
life. With an altering of thought and attitude, one can find happiness.

So lack of an enlightened mind would lead to a lack of true happiness

Answer 3

In order: Satisfaction, Acceptance, Discernment, Direction. Then it just leads the unhappiness back to yourself and you find the lack was within all along.

Answer 4

Lack of discernment.

There are happy people who lack satisfaction, direction and acceptance in life--they still have a good outlook on life.. Because they have the ability and the wisdom to understand man and the traits and inner qualities or relationships (if they have discernment) If you lack wisdom all the others would bring you down to the lowest level.

Answer 5

Perfection is knowing direction and discernment; satisfaction is what we all strive for; acceptance is what humans wish and struggle for in "fitting" into society; happiness is an emotion that we want, but do we have it all the time? Unhappiness is a state of mind that is accepted or ignored. Are we perfect, do we have happiness because of? Work still in progress.

Answer 6

Lack of acceptance undermines happiness. It can diminish satisfaction, in all things. Too much critical discernment can do the same, for much the same reasons. Lack of direction can diminish the chances, unless it leads to tunnel vision - and equally too single minded direction can diminish one's chances too. There's a profit in almost everything, if one looks for it, accepting that it may not be the profit one sought. Perhaps moderation, paradoxically linked to a capacity for eager enthusiasm as appropriate, is the trick.

Answer 7

No. Rather lack of discernment causes lack of acceptance, satisfaction, direction and happiness.

There can be no real lack of love, hope and faith. They're innate to being human. The ego problem - lack spiritual discernment - simply trumps them.

Answer 8

lack lack lack
eliminate lack from your dictionary
try to have happiness even from a tiny insect.
happiness is hidden in a treasure box it is up to you how you will get the key to happiness.
if you think you are lacking anything then from this moment start thinking you are not lacking
then from your acts and words remove lackness
lack of direction=if you don't know then close your eyes and start doing blind faith in Allah you will get the direction
lack of satisfaction=so one should not be satisfied if you are satified then you will never do progress.keep on struggling for further best.
lack of dicernment=i am still happy you yourself is your discernment
lack of acceptance=start accepting people .people will accept you but in your case hundred of people are accepting you as your friend
lack of love= love someone this is important that you atleast do love
hope=because you have given up and your good destiny is waiting but you are enemy of yourself and not ready to take so you lose hope.
lack of faith=if you don't have confidence in yourself then there is no question of faith and you have closed your eyes and ears to accept the truth you don't have firmity .so no faith , lack of faith means you only believe.lack of faith means that light of faith is getting dim in you.save your burnin candle from the wind which is tryin to blow it off
remove lack
nothing is then gloomy
okay!]
when you wake up
do nothing
put your hands on your chest and say loudly i am still happy i am still happy i am still happy

Answer 9

When it's love you lack in life, then everything turns incomplete. And when you're incomplete, then you're not happy. Only in being complete inside will you find direction,.. execute fair decision,..understand needs,.. feel accepted,.. and get satisfied.

Lack or excess of anything could lead to unhappiness.

Answer 10

I would say lack of direction. Without direction, we wouldn't know what choices or paths were the right or wrong ones and there would be no satisfaction or acceptance to be gained or lost.