2007-08-30 12:12:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That is a hard one,my husband didn't start noticing me until he moved out and got his own apartment. He no longer could tell me what to do or where to go.I was on my own to go and come as i please.In his eyes i started looking different stronger standing on my own two feet he fount that very attractive and after two and a half years being some what separated he moved back in and it's been so much better then before he left me. That was 10 years ago and he still loves me to death. Absences makes the heart grow finder is so very true. You need to somehow become a different person anything out of the ordinary know matter how small it is, it will make a huge difference.
2007-08-30 12:37:49 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy a red lacey bra set and wash it out by hand - just so you have to leave the panties air dry in the bathroom or your bedroom where he'll see them -
let him walk in on you when you are getting ready for bed - where your hair is pulled up with a few tendrils down and your make up is off ( except your base and some light mascara ) and be rubbing lotion on your self -
if you are alone in the house and its hot outside even if the air is on put on a tank top - no bra and some raelly short shorts or your panties - ( any kind will do ) and just make an excuse to sit down and fan your self - is it hot or is it me ? ) or just start washing dishes - and vacuming ( you have to bend over for that )
just do stuff that isnt obvious but iwll catch his attention -
2007-08-30 12:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by imissmahboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask him to set down, and be open tell him how you feel
tell him that you miss what he use to give you and then try to listen to what he's got to say.it does take two you know
sometime guy's go threw stage's of hot, cold ,Luke warm.we all need a break sometimes.but we all like when our mates does nice things for us,make him a dinner or rub his back kiss his neck and tell him you love him.or call him a at work tell you can't get him out of your head.be a flirt it's OK your married
but what ever you do DON'T (beat this horse til it drop then beat it back up again)no body likes to be yield or made to do something.
2007-08-30 12:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by bigpump 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the girlfriend he started dating all that time ago. That will work providing he's not one of the few like my husband: notices, then says that's nice, what'd you do that for. Its worked for my friends.
2007-08-30 12:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, there isn't much information here.
I'll assume that you mean sexually. Become a tease - toss your underwear at him after dinner, go shopping for lingerie and have him in the changing room with you (most places will tolerate this), ask him if he wants any toys, and so on. If you're so inclined and ready for the legal risks, marijuana is a great aphrodisiac.
2007-08-30 12:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be creative. Get dressed up. Wear makeup. Wear revealing clothes. Even been creative in the bedroom? Play Dr., you're the dr. When you're married, anything goes.
2007-08-30 12:19:06 · answer #6 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand in front of your husband wearing a tiger mask, and your birthsuit: he'll notice you.
Good luck!
2007-08-30 12:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by Idon'tlivehere 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be positive. Be active. Stay in shape.
2007-08-30 12:18:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step out side of your comfert box try some thing you have both never done
2007-08-30 12:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by silver01222000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Threaten to leave
2007-08-30 16:02:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋