Most of the time I make everything like a game. Like was looking for a boyfriend, I got one, and the games over. So it the fun. So then I was like, now I lets get kissed. It happend and the games over. So know I'm like whats next? Whats wrong with me, when I get what I want I'm not exactly happy, but thinking "whats next"
2007-08-30 11:40:28 · 9 answers · asked by Mal777 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
well, competition is one thing (stupid) and game is another (great). but I know what you mean; I have that too. I feel like I need to find the next best thing or like searching for a player that is better than me. it's a bit immature , right? but then again you need the thrill to keep you going. there's got to be some give and take here. don't let the 'game' overwhelm you; look closely at ppl, there can be more than you think bc you are too focused on yourself and your 'competition' thinking which can be lonely, just so you know.
2007-08-30 11:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by sarah kay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't preach but I will say that it isn't unusual to feel the way you do. Explorers are famous for always seeking new experiences. New challenges. Being unsatisfied just means you'll want to explore more. Think about the settlers that moved west- some stopped at the mississippi river and were satisfied with how far they had traveled while some hadn't seen enough and kept going west until they reached the Pacific. Explore- maybe the first boyfriend, first kiss are really not where your interests truely are and you are just doing it to go along with the crowd or because you think that's all a girl should want to explore. Find some books on famous women, check out the biography section of the library and you'll find thousands that were unafraid to explore beyond the boundaries society had set for them. Sorry, I guess I did preach afterall.
2007-08-30 19:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by rhubarb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get married. Game over forever.
2007-08-30 20:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just work on doing things to be happy. No worrying or fussing just trying to be a happy person.
2007-08-30 18:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by ronnny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
life is no competition,
its a game,
learn the rules and enjoy it,
2007-08-30 19:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by citizen of lala land 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. I sometimes feel that way but i remind myself that i should just live my life not comparing and have fun. :) -T
2007-08-31 17:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is a game.
youve got one boy, but you need to beat your friends!!
get a different one.
2007-08-30 18:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is whatever you make of it. Do the things you want to do...challenge yourself to something bigger, badder, better. The sky is the limit.....
2007-08-30 18:46:15 · answer #8 · answered by RJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u problaby like challenges!
CHALLENGE YOuR SELF
but life is a competition
"u gotta kill or be killed"
~1~
2007-08-30 18:59:54 · answer #9 · answered by K_Dizzle35** Y!A_MoSt HaTed!* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋