I Need Advice?

Question

Ok, I fooled around 3-5 times w/ my friend I'm getting 2 know. She even commented 2 me how meaningful the sex felt to her, & how exposed she felt to me. We just have this big-time chemistry between us...almost electric.I bit her on a nerve on her neck 1 night on accident & it freaked her out. I apologized several times, she said it's all good. We hung out & had sex a 2 nights after that & hung out & had a great time each night after that for 2 nights. Then I didn't hear from her for 4 days. Finally 2 nights ago I sent her a txt message saying, "If I weirded you out, or made you mad somehow, I'm sorry." The next day (yesterday) she sent me a message saying "I just needed a break for a while, our friendship isn't lost. The bite on the neck just ****** me up, I guess." I sent her a text message today & nothing. What should I do? I'm getting tired of women who say they're falling or act as tho they're in love & then u have sex w/ them & poof they're gone! What do I do about this girl?

Answer 1

Go bowling. Take cold showers. Give her a few days and give her a call (to hang out or go somewhere or something; don't bring up the neck thing again).

If she says she still "needs space", I'd just say "cool. Call me when you are ready" and move on with your life. If you've hooked up with someone else by the time she's ready to have you in her space again...oh, well.

I had this exact episode (without the neck thing) many years ago, and I backed off and didn't call for a week. She called me and asked why I didn't call and I said, "you said to give you space." Her reply? "Yeah, but I didn't say you couldn't call me." Go figure.

Answer 2

I'm not sure if there is anything you can do about this girl. In the reply messege that she sent you, she said "our friendship isn't lost", which in my opinion she is stating that she only is willing to be friends at this point. It was the bite on the neck, that did it, so in the future you may have to be a bit gentler with your women if you want to keep them around. Eventually you might find someone who will like it like that.

Answer 3

She's probably got some issues. Possibly another man or a family member that got rough with her. I would just ask her, very bluntly,"Did another man ever hurt you? By biting your neck?" Have her come clean. Sex is just like any other part of the relationship. If you want it to work, you have to talk about it.

Answer 4

Did the nerve hurt her that bad???? Maybe she does just want a break, or maybe you need to find a woman who wants sex all the time, that way, she will never just fade away after your "great sex", she will stick around

Answer 5

give her time. If she said the friendship is NOT lost, then take her word for it. If she's blowing you off and can't be upfront with the way she feels then that is a RED FLAG that she can't come to terms with the way she feels and that is trouble in the long run.

good luck,

dz

Answer 6

when a girl doesn't respond, it usually means she's not interested. though from your history, it seems like she would be. if you really want to work things out, try calling her, but don't be annoying or obsessive about it. it may just blow over, or maybe it's over. the neck thing is weird, though. i don't know why she would make such a big deal out of it.

Answer 7

Give her space. She might of just needed the time with you but not want a commitment from you.

Answer 8

You BIT her, dude !! Apparently hard enough to bruise and/or break the skin.

If she has any sense, she is scared of you. Unfortunately, the 'great chemistry' may override her fear. I predict you will hurt her in the near future, again. I could be wrong. Prove me wrong. ok?