Ok I have a friend and she was my past college teacher. Well I have been to her house and we have gone to lunch and all that..we have become closer friends. Well I have gotten her new baby a couple of outfits and since we only talk through email, I emailed her and told her last week and asked when a good time to come by was and she told me anytime, but to tell her when and what time I decided.Well she never answered me so I didnt go over there. Then I asked her again this week and she emailed me today telling me to come by at 6:30 tonight but just a few min. ago, & called me on my cell and told me thier AC was broke and they are getting it fixed right now and she asked to reschedule AGAIN for next week. These seem like excuses to me..I dont know what the problem is but it is getting me very annoyed and frustrated with her.I really need to get those outfits for her b4 the baby gets a couple of months older. I feel like next week it will be another excuse next week & it hurts my feelings
2007-08-30 11:24:23 · 3 answers · asked by greenturtle 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Sure sounds like a brush-off to me. If you really want her to have the outfits, mail them to her. Don't be surprised if there's no Thank You note or phone call. if you're ready to drop her like a hot rock, find a consignment shop to sell them for you, if it's too late to return them, or give them to your priest to give to a new mother when he visits the hospital or any of his parish rounds I can guarantee you the stranger will appreciate them. Remember, any kindness you do for someone is a kindness you've done for Our Lord. ( I added this last piece because I feel that you are a very sweet person and just felt down deep in my bones that you are one of Jsus' sheep. If I'm wrong aboutt you being Christian, sorry)
2007-08-30 11:40:57 · answer #1 · answered by sugarbabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrap them and mail them with a note saying that you wanted the baby to get her gifts. Tell her you hope that the baby and she are doing fine. And just mention to give you a call when she has time. She may be exhausted and overwhelmed. Either that or tell her you have a gift for the baby and you would like to drop it by. Since you aren't certain what's going on. Just hand it in through the door and tell her you hope that she and the baby are fine and leave. Do not go inside. And ask her to give you a call when she has some time. You are looking forward to lunch or whatever.
2007-08-30 20:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by towanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mail them to her. If this is her first child, she could be having a difficult time adjusting.
2007-08-30 18:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by eniles21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋