She is that kind... opinionated, uploaded and downloaded, multi-tasker, ahead of the curve, high profile, wireless, and tireless girl. Should I pretend to be a sensitive new age guy or just my regular macho self? I know nice guys never get any, but if you tell me its gonna work, I'll do it. I have successfully pretended to be so many things before. Please dont judge or moralize, just tell me what to act like to ensure some action. Thank you in advance ladies...
p.s. i cant believe they suspended me!
2007-08-30 09:31:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
1. tell her she is paying for everything and that this is non-negotiable
2. don't let her have some till she's earned it
2007-08-30 10:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 8⤋
First off the wrong thing to think about when going out on the date is getting laid. And you have to learn to be yourself at all times even if your a jerk. Find someone in your lead.If you want action put it out there at least you went out knowing that you tried the right way.Also let women know what your looking for that'll help you with that decision because if you do most women will be down for whatever and some will not. Put it on the table. And have a nice day!
2007-08-30 09:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by me 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh, you are so not getting laid anyway. Progressive women are often quite intelligent and we know when we're being played. She'll pick up on it. Try just being yourself. If you're honest with her, she'll at least appreciate that.
Also, the nice guys don't get laid thing is stupid. That myth's only around because of guys like you, _pretending_ to be nice, and then getting all p!ssy because you don't get action. The truly nice, kind guys can't keep the girls off of them. I know this, because I was lucky enough to date a couple.
2007-08-30 10:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by random6x7 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't PRETEND to be anything. If she is as smart as you say she is, she will see right through that. Progressive women want an equal relationship with a man that they view as a partner - be honest, be frank, respect her and yourself, and have a good time.
PS - if she offers to pick up the check, let her, and simply say, 'thank you'.
2007-08-30 10:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by HooliganGrrl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a narcissistic con artist; a chameleon who changes color in accordance with the environment.
You should pick on a woman who is not savvy enough to see through you.
2007-08-30 14:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by Telcontar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try being yourself. If you try to change yourself in the beginning you're going to get so tired very quickly of pretending. You should be with someone that is so happy to be with you and not some fabricated one. You shouldn't have to change yourself to impress. If this is going to last, be yourself. I'm sure you're great as is. Good luck to you!
2007-08-30 09:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by Paula 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
your obviously not wanting to hear be yourself as you might not be happy with who you really are. i would say know your crap on feminism but be macho about it. the truth is alot of fems like subtle machismos. i wanna hear what you went with and how it turned out.
2007-08-30 10:03:35 · answer #7 · answered by redjedi182 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and if she starts talking about feminism just agree with her, and you might even get some action.
2007-08-30 10:08:28 · answer #8 · answered by Johno 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever tried acting like yourself? Maybe tell her all about the real you. She might actually like that person better than anyone you "pretend" to be.
2007-08-30 09:34:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
throw it all out, go way back, club her over the head and drag her back to the cave lol, most of them are extremely flakey in my opinion, so go with the flow, just give them a taste and watch out for their reactions, and never be to sure, what they like today may not be what they like tomorrow and what they tell you may or may not have anything to do with what they feel, you just gott watch the good old fashioned body language
2007-08-30 09:40:46 · answer #10 · answered by ashtmiller 2 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Just be yourself and let her decide whether to go out with you again.
2007-08-30 10:43:11 · answer #11 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋