im 15. i havent seen grandma for 2 weeks. i usually see her once a week. she never calls me. she is always busy. i always have to call her. i havent called her for ten days and she still wont call me. i hate it when she neglects me. i cry every night because i miss her. everyday i sit home bored and everyday is wasted because i sit around waiting for grandma to call. tomorrow im gonna wait around for grandma. how can i make her call me? she does this all the time. then when i talk to her, she will say "why havent you been calling me?" then what do i say?
2007-08-30 08:35:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
It's going to be okay. I'm sure your grandma LOVES you very much and would like to hear from you all the time and also see you all the time. You have to remember that a grandma's memory is not the same as when she was 15 and/or a young girl/lady. That doesn't mean she's old, it just means that she probably has a lot of things on her mind and a lot of things to do and she may seem to forget things more now that she's grown older with age. Keep calling her and don't become frustrated. Also when a person becomes older they also become a little less tolerant of things and more fussy.
2007-08-30 08:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by metalgods 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I too have a grandma that lives close but we dont live in each others pockets, she knows where i am if she needs me and vice versa, you are 15 and you should be making the most of your replationship with her every way you can instead of sitting there wondering whos turn it is to call, does she have other grandchildren?? Just call her! if you want to talk to her, call her! life is too short to play the "i'm the one that always calls grandma game" If you cry every night because you miss her, CALL HER!!
2007-08-30 08:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by imthepoo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're 15. I think it's time to grow up a little and stop acting like a child. Grandmas do not have to sit around in their rocking chair and knit sweaters anymore. They can be just as active as younger people. If you want to see her, then work out a schedule with her. You can't make someone call you. Therefore, call her when you feel like talking to her.
2007-08-30 08:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by S H 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell her "Grandma You can call me to"... Or give it up and call her the same time every week older people get busy or they forget . Dont let stuff like that ruin a relationship. Hon life is to short.........
2007-08-30 08:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hold on there kiddo, grandma has a life of her own, and she is obviously busy living it, why aren't you living yours? I am sure she loves you, you should be too. But that doesn't mean that she OWES you a thing. Time to grow up a little more honey, and realize that other people are not on this planet to meet your needs. It 's your job to meet your own needs. If you want to talk to her, then call her, but don't expect her to hop to and call you. That is just selfish thinking.
2007-08-30 08:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Set up a weekly "call date" and alternate who makes the phone call.
2007-08-30 08:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by michele 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Feel free to call her anytime you want. It's OK.
2007-08-30 08:43:55 · answer #7 · answered by ted j 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is this being asked in womens health?
Tell grandma how you feel.
2007-08-30 08:39:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Okay? What is your women's health question?
2007-08-30 08:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋