2007-08-30 08:02:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
it may mean that you still have unresolved feelings for your first love. you may be regretting seperation from him or maybe you recently saw him with someone else and you are imagining what it would be like to be with him again. If you are happy in your marriage forget the dreams they are just a result of old memories and an overactive imagination.
2007-08-30 08:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by JDlvr 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Is this a sleeping dream, or a daydream? If this is a sleeping dream, forget about it. It is just a dream. If this is a daydream, where you are consciously thinking about having an affair, you may want to take a look at your marriage and ask why you want to cheat on your husband. Since you are newly married, it may just be a phase you are going thru to let go of the past by revisiting it in your mind. As long as you do not act on the dream, you will be fine.
2007-08-30 08:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by magix151 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when you dream of a past love this means you are noticing some things in a current relationship that remind you of an old one. They could be good things, but most likely, you're beginning to see similarities between the two that cause the separation of you and your first love.
This could also mean that your current relationship is lacking things your old relationship fulfilled.
The best thing to do would be to think about what it is and discuss this with your partner, not about the dreams, as they may be taken out of context by your current partner, but about what you feel the relationship is lacking (without comparing the relationship to your old one) and what the two of you could do to make it better.
Good Luck =) and whatever you do, you should not hide these feelings, if acted upon, it could fix problem...if left alone and ignored, it may just get worse.
2007-08-30 08:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by dEE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow this is so crazy I have had the dreams too, but they went away...because I would never end my marriage because of a dream. I think you remember what you valued most out of the first realationsip and realize you dont have it in this realationship. That being said the realationship ended for a reason. Also you can go to dreammoods.com and look up ex bf and it should tell you what the dream actually meant.
2007-08-30 08:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should make contact with the first one. I've been married for 2 1/2 years and had a ton of dreams about an ex. So I called him up and talked to him. He was really happy to talk, but we both realize that now is not the time to pusue.. if ya know what I mean? Talking did make me feel better though. try it see what happens.
2007-08-30 08:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by ronvetgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 8 years married and yet i still dream of my past love,but,when i wake up i just throw a smile on them,because I dont have any regret in marrying my husband,though he was not my first love,but he is my true love,and happy to be with him.
But I have to share this one story,I have a playmate since we were just 5 years old and my childhood sweetheart,though we did not had any formal relationship,we both know in ourselves that we like each other,until we reach the age of 16,he started courting me for years,but the courtship was only seasonal,bcoz he was just coming in our place during his vacation,so my feelings for him was not nurtured.until no more communication at all,bcoz i left our country for job abroad,Until after 12 years,when I had my vacation back home to my moms house,he came and visited me,he said that he's been waiting for me and needs to talk to me because he don't understand why he's been dreaming about me,and he regret why he didn't put more time in trying to win me,because I'm the one he dream to be with,but I told him that I'm happily married,and maybe because his married life was not as happy as I am,that's why he was just putting meaning to his dreams,and thinking what if I became his wife.So,when he left he said,he felt something better then,atleast he was able to tell what was his feelings which he was not able to tell before.I just wished him goodluck that he'll find the right girl for the second time.
tnx for reading
2007-08-30 09:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by happymom2b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna take a whack and say you're looking too spicifically into what it means.
Lets say your mind is referring to your partner as "The routine" and your first love as "The flame/the spark/the passion"
I think your body is just trying to tell you it wants a change of pace, maybe not so much with WHO you love, but HOW, or how often, or maybe it's not related to the person at all and your body simply wants to change things up a bit, in your life, your job, whatever!
Hope that helped!
2007-08-30 08:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by knightofyourmom 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
DON'T contact your ex. Bad advice for someone married!!!! My best guess, based on past experience, is that you're simply yearning for some romance.
Romance your spouse, bring some excitement into your bed. Don't waste time and effort thinking about the past, make a great future!
2007-08-30 08:35:38 · answer #8 · answered by leysarob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say you never forget your first. It's normal, I still have dreams about my first, even though he's married with two kids, still doesn't stop me from dreaming. Dreams are always better than the real thing. If you met up with your first love chances are you'd be asking yourself what you ever saw in him in the first place. People are always better in our minds.
2007-08-30 08:12:14 · answer #9 · answered by Weimaraner Mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means nothing, unless you react on real life on what your dreams told you. i'm also having (maybe?) a dream about having an affair to my ex-gf but i don't mind it coz i know it will ruin both of us and our family,anyway i'm much more happy with my wife even if shes not as beautiful as my ex. Sometimes, i know, dreams like that was made because he thinks or either they talk about you. thats all....
2007-08-30 08:28:41 · answer #10 · answered by ydde 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋