my good friend was wit her partner for 4 years they separated but started seeing each other again in march...shes only recently found out he's got another girl pregnant,and is now with her. but my m8 has already got a 4 yr old little girl wiv this guy,has to still see him,for her daughter's sake, but is finding it really difficult to accept he's with this girl (who she knew as a friend) shes coping very well with it (better than i would) but id like to give her a bit of advice can anyone help me out??
2007-08-30 07:52:34 · 4 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just be a really good friend who listens a lot. Until she is ready to let him go, there is nothing else you will be able to do.
2007-08-30 07:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by Sia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Words are not an option in this situation. Just physically be there for her. Get her out of the house and doing things. Take her for a night out or two. Even if she says she doesn't want to do it. And just listen. Listening is key as a good friend.
2007-08-30 15:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by youcandoit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all this friend of yours just found out that her childs father is with someone else and she still trying to remain calm with him for the sake of the child she has with him. let me tell you this she is still in love with this man. If this person was surppose to be her friend now she knows to keep her friends away from her man. Time to go
best of luck
2007-08-30 15:02:41 · answer #3 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You offer to be there when he comes to pick up the child, or take the child to him, and then she wouldn't have to see him. I would just be there to lend an ear and let her vent, sometimes that's the best thing to do for someone, just listen.
2007-08-30 15:03:10 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋