Have you ever had a family member come across a picture of you on the internet and in that picture you are wearing little or no clothes and may or may not be doing "things" with other people or yourself?
I have intentionally worded this so as to not offend anyone but I believe we all understand what I'm referring to here.
How did you explain the pictures? How did that change your relationship with them? What about friend reactions? or employers?
And.. for those of you that are going to respond with "yeah.. and then I did them" or "you get what you deserve" or are thinking about just leaving some rude comment or name calling... or some other lame answer please.. just move on.
this is a serious question and I'd like answers from those who have seriously gone through this.
2007-08-30 07:39:05 · 11 answers · asked by .... 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Seriously, and not being rude, I'd need to see the picture first.
2007-08-30 07:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I haven't gone through it but my sister did. What I told her to do was just tell anyone who asks that it was done when she was younger and did not know they had been posted online. She was young and made mistakes and since everyone makes mistakes she is only human. Her employer didn't find them but a coworker of hers did and she just told them what i told her to and also she contacted the website and told them to remove the photos or face legal action.
2007-08-30 14:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, can't say that has ever happened to me. I'm really sorry if that has actually happened to you. If Paris Hilton and Pamela Anderson can get on with their lives I'm sure you can too. Just tell people you made a mistake and you've learned from it.
2007-08-30 14:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by Momof2grrls 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah --- I have a religious bigot cousin who saw a picture of me in a leather jacket and lace panties. He tried to embarrass me saying "Oh my God, I wouldn't expect this of my little cousin..." I was 27 yrs old.
I just laughed him off. People like him will not make me feel ashamed of my life. It's my life after-all.
2007-08-30 14:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew a man in El Paso once... One day he took off all his clothes and jumped in a mess of cactus. I asked him why he did such an stupid thing. He said: "It seemed like a good idea at the time". That is probably all that can be said about anything stupid that we do.
2007-08-30 14:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Should you ask such questions to an old girl on her way to the crematorium?
When we were worth seeing, there was no Net.
Now, if I walk nude on the street, people will get irritated, not aroused.
2007-08-30 14:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by sexy grandmother 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well a simalar situation happened to me and the only thing i said was my life my mistakes my problem sorry to disappoint you but this is a part of who i am and it is something you will have to either accept or ignor
2007-08-30 14:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by crashqueen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have never been in your shoes.. but tell them it was a mistake, act very upset that it even happened. make yourself appear to be the victim and they can't be mad at you, rather they will feel sorry for you and want to be there for you since that happened to you. hope that helps.
2007-08-30 14:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by lilmissyprissy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well maybe you can tell them that you didnt know that "whoever" had taken pics/video and if they have a problem with a certain position or pic, you can tell them that's your bedroom life and that you dont ask about theirs.
2007-08-30 15:06:58 · answer #9 · answered by amarie801 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, i think i need to see this!! :)
but seriously, why did you do it? if it was for money, just tell them it was a job or something, you were strapped for cash.
but if you did it for pleasure...i think you have a lot of explaining to do.
2007-08-30 14:45:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋