hi.. i havent seen or heard from my ex boyfriend in 2 months...last night i went to some lounge by me with my friend and i saw my ex kissing some girl...im not going to lie, even though i moved on, it did bother me a bit...after he hooked up with her he was by the bar by himself so i went up to him and said hi and we started talking...after that i saw some guy who i knew and we started talking (thats all, i didnt hook up with him or anything)...i saw my ex staring at us that he even came up to me while i was talking to the other guy...after that i walked out with my friend and that guy and his friend and i kno my ex saw it bc he tried getting my attention..then he calls me and leaves a message on my voicemail saying "i want you" but ur with another guy".. i get a call from him the next day apologizing to me if he said anything bad the night before cause he was drunk. then he asked me how i been? and what ive been up to? i mean seriously what does he want from me??
2007-08-30 07:18:57 · 10 answers · asked by fran c 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
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2007-08-30 07:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by kayl08 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
That is just a classic case of your ex-boyfriend being jealous. You two have not seen each other or spoken to each other in 2 months. He was not thinking about you until he realized that what he once had is gone. If you do not want trouble, just ignore him, he will leave you alone because he does not want anything. It is just like a 2 year old child that puts a toy down and once another child picks that toy up, the other child wants it back.
2007-08-30 14:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by acey5654 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Fran,
Sometimes when we see our ex with another woman/man
it can makes us see what we lost...those old feelings come back because we see someone whom we cannot have because they are with someone else already
when people drink sometimes ....the true person comes through....He sounds like he is needing someone and has no one.... and sees you then thinks he can get you back ....the question is ...why did you break up in the first place? was it a good relationship? look back to that and remember why you broke up in the first place and do you want to go through it all over again? you you can make a good decision on what you want, don't just look aty the good stuff....look at the bad stuff too. good luck
2007-08-30 14:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by itsme 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe seeing you brought up some feelings for you that he didn't realize he still had.
You just need to be really cautious in a situation like this. Keep talking to him if you feel comfortable doing so, but you should keep the control. Don't "mess around" with him. Keep the relationship strictly friendly.
If he wants more, he'll let you know.
2007-08-30 14:26:20 · answer #4 · answered by T the D 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He felt the same thing you did.
"I'm not going to lie, even though I'd moved on, it bothered me a bit".
The old 'tingle` never really goes away completely.
Just relax and stay friends.
2007-08-30 14:31:23 · answer #5 · answered by Irv S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To quote my favorite Tom Petty song "It's time to move on, it's time to get going". You need to get on with your life. I don't know what your ex wants from you, but its probably not the relationship that you would want from him. He either wants sex or he is just jealous because you are with another guy. If I were you, I would stop taking his calls and get on with your life.
2007-08-30 14:30:06 · answer #6 · answered by jml167 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but did you not like the answers you got the first time? he wants sex and you are being naive. What else is there to say?
(Sorry for being so blunt but if you don't really want to hear the truth maybe you shouldn't ask the question)
2007-08-30 14:27:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd just ignore him. Sounds like he just wants attention from you, but he doesn't want you back, even though he said that while he was drunk. I'd move on.
2007-08-30 14:27:33 · answer #8 · answered by sun_shinevt 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Feelings,memories and emotions are very persuasive,a word of advice is to be careful.
2007-08-30 14:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by yp_will_chicago_369 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to QUIT asking this question! It's ridiculous how man times you asked this! Under this identity and others!
2007-08-30 15:07:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋