why can't people except my views on abortion?

Question

I'm pro-choice. I have been with my boyfriend for six years (since I was16) and we don't use protection. When I get pregnant I have an abortion.I personally believe there is nothing wrong with this, as all my abortions (there have been 7 in total) have been before the first month of pregnancy(i.e when there is only a mass of cells). If I had found out I was pregnant at three months I would have a more difficult decision to make.
I am intitled to my views on abortion and other people,althought they may disagree,must accept that they are my views and there should be no need for anything nasty.
Howvever my parents have abandoned me and say they want nothing more to do with me as a result of my actions.Why can't they just accept that I am my own person now? Would they disown me because I don't like Hotpot and they do? When does this end and why can't people understand all humans are different?

Answer 1

I'm definently Pro-Choice but I'm opposed to people continuously using it as a sort of birth control.
I think it's okay to get it once, then afterwards you should remember to always use a condom.

The problem I can see with your situation is you seem to not lack compassion that you've just aborted your fetus. Some people might argue that it's a human even though it's still in early stages.

I don't understand why you & your boyfriend don't bother to use protection (I'm sure it would save money for the numerous abortions..), go on the pill, or better yet take simple precautions that his man juices don't get a chance to swim up that birth canal..

Answer 2

My opinion on abortion is that it is wrong, save for the cases where the child has been conceived as a result of rape/incest or the health of the mother or baby is severly in danger.

I do not expect others to share my opinion, and do not slander those who are pro choice - that's their own decision and I respect that.

I do however feel that once the sperm meets the egg, the baby starts to grow right from that moment, and all features of the child are 'decided', such as sex, eye/hair colour etc. Initally it is a clump of cells but after very few days, the baby does start to develop.

It must be a very difficult decision for any parent to disown their child, however, in turn (in their eyes), you have murdered 7 of their grandchildren. Maybe given time they will come round, but I know my mum would disown me if I had one abortion, at seven she would really be annoyed........

In todays day and age, with all the contraception that is available, and the many places you can get it for free too, there is no reason to fall pregnant unless you actually want to! I feel you should be more responsible. As I said before, if you're pro choice then that's your perrogative, but I CANNOT agree with you using abortion as a contraceptive.

Also, are there not down-sides to having so many abortions? I think that women who have had lots face more problems trying to conceive when are trying to have children.

I think you need to think about what you are doing, I don't understand how you can take this so lightly really, and you should look after yourself a bit more.

Answer 3

Im pro-choice, but surly you should get on the pill, its a lot less hassle in the long run. Or have a coil, at least that way, you havent got to worry about remebering your pill everyday. My friend has had to abortions, and now she is infertile, how gut renching is that? The two chances shes had to have a child has totally gone out the window! Maybe you should think twice, and get some contriception before anything like that happens to you?

Answer 4

I would be very surprised if you had actually had seven abortions. If on the outside chance what you write here is true then you need to grow up and take responsibility for you sexual activity. Abortion should not be used as a means of birth control. If you can't keep your little legs together then get on BC it is free and can be obtained through your local health department. You are right it is your body and your choice. It would seem that at some point common sense would take over though. As for your parents, well, I am sure that they are appalled at your behavior and frankly I don't blame them.

Answer 5

Hi Hanaxx,

Now you are around 22 with a history of 7 abortion. Are you well informed about consequences?

I respect 'right to abort' but limit is a limit. You are traumatizing your mental and female part.

Yes, human are different and I really can not understand your unprotected needs. Alternatives were beyond your reach, right?

Abortion surely is not a very pleasant experience. And are you not misusing your abortion right?

Choice is all yours.

Please, take care!
Bye!

Answer 6

7 lives taken,7 innocent baby's killed,7 grandchildren they will never meet!! i think this may be the way ur parents perceive ur actions.. ur definitely entitled to your views and choices,but why even put urself through that when it can be easily avoided by using birth control.. having an abortion i imagine cannot be easy for u to bare emotionally and physically why go through that.. if ur not responsible enough to deal with the possible outcomes of a sexual relationship then why have one?! u talk about ur actions as if it were a routine ur used to u should then make birth control a new routine and stop putting ur self through that and taking lives..u have a right to choose, also know there are options

Answer 7

We all have our own opinions about abortions. I do not think it's right to use abortion as a means of birth control, when there are other means available. I also don't think it does your body any good, to have repeated abortions, even if it is only a mass of cells being removed. Now, that's my opinion. It differs with yours, but we all have the right to our own opinion. I'm sorry your parents have disowned you because their love is supposed to be unconditional. As parents, we don't always agree with the decisions our children make, but we continue to love them nonetheless or should.

Answer 8

There's pro-choice and then there's YOU. Personally I think you're scum. And there's PLENTY wrong with it. Of course your entitled (notice it begins with an E) to your views and opinions but what you are doing is criminal. You got a screw loose? Try keeping your legs shut, or have you never heard of condoms? I actually think you're yanking our chains anyway. Who in their right minds would authorise SEVEN abortions? Just a pity your parents didn't abort YOU - then there would've been seven lives saved. And there is a BIG difference between fecking HOTPOT and a BABY!

Answer 9

I too am pro-choice, but your attitude seems cavalier and risky. First of all, why don't you use protection??? Too many abortions will cause scare tissue to form and when you want to get pregnant, you wont be able to. Second, even tho I am pro choice (and would fight for your right to have an abortion.....) that doesn't mean you shouldn't try not to get pregnant!!! It is a life in potential and your attitude seems selfish and childish.

Maybe your parents will start talking to you again if you start to grow up!!

Good luck!

Answer 10

It's not your views on abortion I have a problem with, I am very glad you don't have children as you appear to be irresponsible - you are not taking any responsibility to stop conception. A mature view would say - I would not want children yet I will practise some method of birth control - as humans we have that choice, and as adults we should take that seriously. As I say, I have no problem with abortion in the early months - although it would not be my choice.