I have been married for 20 yrs now. My husband is an alcoholic with Bipolar disorder, we have had our share of problems and i have been faithful just unhappy. I met a man who is also unhappily married and we talked at first and then kissed. I know this is wrong but he treated me so good and we just connected. We have decided to continue talking for now and see where it leads. Am I crazy? What should I do?
2007-08-30 06:28:26 · 3 answers · asked by cme4ins 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Both of you are currently in unhappy marriages, and are using each other as a means of escape. I'm not doubting your sincerity, or his, BUT you are both acting out of unhappiness in a current situation. This will lead to nothing but trouble, trouble, trouble. You need to handle the situation with your husband first. You either decide to stay with him, and try to help him work it out, or you leave him, and THEN worry about another man. This other man has a wife, and unhappy or not (and did you ever think he was just TELLING you he was unhappy? Maybe he just wants a fling on the side?), he is obviously not being honest with her as well. Unhappiness leads to strong emotions, kind of like the "knight in shining armor" theory, and while it may make you happy now, if you two sneak around behind your spouses back, you will get caught, and it will come between you. Break it off with this gentleman and straighten your life out. Good luck.
2007-08-30 06:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before getting involved with this man...you both should divorce your spouses....no matter how unhappy you both are....you are still married!
2007-08-30 13:40:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave your husband before you become a cheater...That is the right thing to do.
2007-08-30 13:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋