...if it turns out the person they are kissing is the same sex as your partner.
(if you replied to the earlier questions, would this new information change your reaction, or make it worse?)
2007-08-30 06:25:48 · 38 answers · asked by Dave H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if she was kissing another girl i would say threesome anybody
2007-09-06 11:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by stanley w 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would still be hurt that they had not come to me and tried to discuss it will me why he had felt the need to kiss someone else. I would still probably have the same initial reaction as with another woman - which is shock and then I would probably turn round and leave the room. At the end of the day, he has still betrayed my trust regardless of who he has kissed. I think though I would probably be more understanding with another man than with another woman as there are possibly orientation issues to factor in. However, I would still try and work on our relationship. My partner is more than a lover he is my best friend and I would not just chuck that away even if he was gay. I would probably end up supporting him through whatever he is going though.
2007-08-30 09:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by talkland72 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would kinda just stand there tottally shocked then i would walk over to where they were give them the most disgusted look ever Spit at both them and tell them subtly how Fuk3d up they both are.
If your partner calls you on the phone let them leave a message on your voicemail hear them out and if you feel like you can talk to them do it. Try to still be friends if thats what the two of you can agree on because its not worth losing a friend over a relationship.
Good Luck.
2007-09-07 06:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by craigalert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk on by probably gasping for air!! I'd tell myself I was not responsible for his actions and get an AIDS test done ASAP. Not because he was kissing the same sex person but because he was caught cheating and it probably wasn't the first time. Then I'd pack his stuff and put it at the curb with a "free" sign on it! Then I'd call him and tell him his stuff is at the curb with a "free" sign on it. Then I would cry about feeling like such a fool and then I would get over it.
2007-09-06 17:35:42 · answer #4 · answered by mein1962 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard choice.....if i found my g/f kissing another girl.......
I would be slightly upset, that she was kissing another person, but if it was temporary then i would ask if there was any chance of a three-some, cause if she is kissing someone else thats you gone so go out with a bang and at least you can say you had a three-some, as a goodbye present
2007-09-07 05:19:14 · answer #5 · answered by Patron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to knock him out! not so much for it being a same-sex partner, but for the fact that he/she is kissing someone other than me. Then my second reaction would be to say f**k off and dont bother calling/phoning me, its done, its over, you made the choice, so goodbye.
2007-09-06 05:41:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my goodness... Now I truly would call him an S O B.... Was it on the lips and were they embracing? If so... Maybe he's gay and if so the S O B label will be OK.. But I think now that you as his partner have seen this you are going to have to confront him.... Good luck Grant M in Pennsylvania
2007-09-05 23:00:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be v.concerned as to why but i don't know if i would make a scene there and then, I'd wait till I was next alone with them, ask what was going on them prob be to uncomfortable to stay so leave..........for good!
2007-09-04 20:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would probably slap the **** out of him and walk away and never look back....doesn't matter if it was with a girl or a guy...i think i would just be more shocked if it were a guy.
2007-08-30 06:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be furious that he's cheating on me, with the same sex or not. I would demand an explanation immediately, or the relationship is over.
2007-08-30 06:33:31 · answer #10 · answered by <3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SMACK THE B+TCH!
male or female, then i'd knock 7 bells out or my husband.
he'd have to do some mega groveling to get my trust back, kiss or sex, it's doesn't matter, it's still betrayal.
xx
2007-08-30 08:57:45 · answer #11 · answered by sasha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋