A few days ago my husband walked into the room and told me that after a discussion with his sisters he had decided to retire, sell our home and move back home to where his family is. I was very hurt by this decision.. I knew at some point that we would have to move back to his home cos he is sick. I just am very hurt that such a big decision was made in my absence. Am i being paranoid.. I shud also mention that this is not the first time that this is happening.. me not being included in decision making matters.
2007-08-30 06:25:33 · 16 answers · asked by tamrastic 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is something very seriously wrong here where you husband need to confide in his sisters instead of his wife. No major decision should not be made without both of you agreeing. You state your husband is sick, please make sure a will and eevrything insurance or financial matters are settled between both of you before you make this move, if not I have a feeling your going to have major problems down the road with this family.
2007-08-30 06:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by beliz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are his wife and he should have came to you before going to a family member your his wife. Your husband is sick and wants to be back home with his family you dont have a problem with that but at least he could have told you your feelings were hurt. This is not the first time that it has happen so he thinks it is okay. if you stod by before and said nothing then.
Best ofluck
2007-08-30 07:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you knew you would have to move someday. Maybe in his mind you had already had the discussion and he was just asking his sister for another opinion. It sounds like he might be really sick that can play tricks on your actions too. You should propbably tell him that it hurt you feelings but don't be mad about it when you tell him just let him know you want to be part of his life. Remember the vows, in sickness and in health.....
2007-08-30 06:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by oppy911 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your husband was disrespectful towards you by not including you in on this. He made a serious decision without your input. If this is not the first time...why would you allow him to make decisions without discussing issues with you?
2007-08-30 06:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, honestly, it depends. Has he been trying to talk with you about this, but you keep putting it off? You say that you knew that you'd have to move back...if you already knew this, then you were included in the decision. It sounds as though he made the decision of WHEN, that's all.
2007-08-30 06:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If your name is on the deed of the house he can't sell the house without your signature. Tell him until he sits down and compromises with you that you will not sign your home away.
2007-08-30 06:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A good wife would not feel this way you need to perform acts of attrition until your attitude improves. These acts would certainly include any physical acts you consider vile and disgusting which may bring him pleasure. Get creative girl you have alot to make up for so buy some KY.
You married a man be a good wife and start packing. Ask his sisters for any advice you may need to make him happy in the new location.
2007-08-30 06:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by btceng64 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
He should have consulted with you before making a life changing descion like that. I would mention it because marriage iss teamwork
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