men or woman?
2007-08-30 04:19:16 · 39 answers · asked by New York Chic 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
A girlfriend one told me that she believed that women were more vindictive. I asked her "why?"
She said, "Well... you expect men to fight tooth and nail with the whole world and screw it up... Men are greedy, competitive, violent and stupid. But when a woman wants to be vindictive, ...it is personal! She goes after a single person with a vengeance, not the whole world. A woman might act out of greed, but their usually is a component of vengeance too. Plus, when women go bad, they are stealthy and smart. They don't declare war or start a fair fight. They sneak up on you and hurt you before you even knew there was a danger. A woman can play hard ball while she rips off your balls and then claim to be the victim. Women are far more vindictive."
That was decades ago when she told me that. Since then, I have seen no evidence that refutes her claim. Have you?
2007-08-30 04:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Trevor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not so sure. Previously I would have said women, but I have found that men will go through great lengths to get vengeance. It also depends on the situation. My statement applies to a man being vindictive toward a woman and vice versa.
2007-08-30 04:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by Meg...Out of Hybernation 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough call. Seems to me that women have the name, but men also play the game. Men can be as vindictive as women.
2007-08-30 10:37:49 · answer #3 · answered by Alfie333 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I strongly believe that woman can be very vindictive and be silent about it. Men too but a woman is much more tactical when it comes to being vindictive.
2007-08-30 04:26:05 · answer #4 · answered by CSC78 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
women!!! Is there really any discussion on this? Men get angry, and might be more violent, but women are by far more vindictive. They plot and scheme to get back at someone, it can take years for a woman to get back, but they will. A guy usually doesnt want to waste his time plotting for 2 years to get back at someone, if he hasnt gotten back at someone within a couple days, then its usually over.
2007-08-30 04:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since I am a woman, I am going to say a woman, because we start vindictiveness since we were little girls!
2007-08-30 04:24:18 · answer #6 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding?? Women, for sure!!! Guys that don't get along usually either avoid each other or "settle it" right there & then. Women... Well, I don't want to piss off my dearest lady friends or they might get vindictive!! LOL
2007-08-30 04:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women.
Cos when I've had an argument with my dad or my bro, 5 seconds later they've forgotten about it, whilst I'm deciding whether to leave a jar of red ants by they're bedroom door or to find a hit man to finish the job proffesionally.
2007-08-30 04:38:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women are more vindictive, men don't have that kind of attention span.
2007-08-30 04:25:13 · answer #9 · answered by Follow the money 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think there are certain people who stick out... but I think more women are vindictive... we have to be, we're always struggling for power.
2007-08-30 04:23:01 · answer #10 · answered by I love cookies 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋