What does my husband have to do in order for me to have an orgasm? what do i have to do for him to have an orgasm?
No dumb answers this is a serious question
2007-08-30 03:03:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
i would say that you both should try having oral with each other kinda like a sixty nine then have sex an during the act continue back an forth an see if it help or have him play with your click while he has sex with you an if that don't work then keep trying.
2007-08-30 03:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by C.S. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy and depending on many different factors.
In general, the causes why women reach no orgasm are two:
- short male sexual intercourse;
- personal difficulty in having orgasm (frigidity).
Many women need more time than men to reach one orgasm. Therefore, whereas the partner isn't able to have a sufficient (longer) act more suitable for the woman satisfaction, the problem could be treated by some appropriate ways good to prolong the intercourse.
About the frigidity, the cause can be different, despite on most case it is psychological only.
Anyway, you said few about you and your friend able to help our answer!
2007-08-30 03:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by whole_feelings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Educate yourselves. A woman needs adequate preparation and a long gentle approach, ultimately with stimulation of the clitoris. Clitoral stimulation is inadequate for many woman during penile intercourse, so alternative means need to be employed, either manual, oral or with a vibrator.
In general, in order for your husband to have an orgasm, you just need to show up (and that is not a dumb answer).
2007-08-30 03:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both needs a councelling session. Orgasm is a art . You can excuse your husband if he does't know this art. But surely he can learn it. THis is applicable to you also. Your role in Couple's mutual orgasm is as important as your husband's is.
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2007-08-30 03:22:04 · answer #4 · answered by Dr.Rahul_Gupta MBBS Sexologist 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's not able to orgasm? Is he able to get hard? You need to spend more time with oral sex before you dive into intercourse. Also, take your time when you each masturbate. Figure out where your erogenous zones are and have him stimulate them when you'e together.
2007-08-30 05:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by italed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but I find it hard to believe you're married and you don't know...not being dumb, just being realistic.
2007-08-30 03:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One alcoholic drink and a lot of loving ACTION.
2007-08-30 03:11:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋