i love him a lot...i ant thin anything else without him, i can never love anyone else than him....he doesnt feel for me anymore...discussions after discussions had finished...he doesnt love heven anyone else, he is not seeking divorce from me....but, we live like two unknown person...he doesnt hold my hand anymore, he doesnt want me physically any more....
2007-08-30 02:26:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thnx to u all..all.....for such beautiful advices...thnx a lot...
I am sorry forlots of spelling mistakes...actually, i m not in situation to even re-check or write carefully things...i am just running my fingers on the key board..dont know what i m writtting- wrong or right..my whole life is acting like mistake...how can i correct my spelling?
2007-08-30 03:03:10 · update #1
Suicide is not your answer. You can't see it right now because you are too close to your situation. You can survive and even thrive without him. Get in to see a counselor as soon as you can. Call a crisis hotline now if you're feeling like you are ready to hurt yourself.
2007-08-30 02:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't consider suicide. It kills everyone, not just you. Don't be selfish.
And don't let the loss of a relationship be the end for you. Just get ready to fight your way thru it. It will be painful, but hold your head up high and get thru it. That's part of life. In fact, that's all of life. You can't give up.
It's also wrong to stay in a marriage with no love. It does no one any good. And living in the same house with this man is only going to make it more painful for you to get over him. File for divorce, or at the very least, live away from him.
You can love someone else, although it may not seem like it right now. But you'll never find the other person who will really love you if you're stuck chasing this guy's tail. Time to move ahead. Good luck to you!
2007-08-30 02:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by Eraserhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO no no no no , suicide is not the answer though i feel your pain, that's not gonna fix it and you know that and you don't need no therapy , in this life you can't make anyone love, you can only give as much love as you're humanly capable of and if he's not seeing that don't blame yourself, you should try communicate with him, if he wants to argue , don't, just stay quiet and listens to he says and see where he's trying to get, try to understand what his problem is and make your decision from there and make sure you let him know how you're truly feeling including your suicidal thoughts that way he'll know what you've been going through and if he's not changing his ways for you then please if you love yourself, move on because there's another guy waiting out there to give his unconditional love to you , that's just life as long as you don't give up life won't give up on you, you will find someone better and things will be better and i don't take you as someone that gives up easily 'cause you at least took the time to write this question so don't give up and go with the flow, don't force things, god will help you but he can't do that if you're not alive...DON'T EVER GIVE UP on life until your time comes...
2007-08-30 03:07:42 · answer #3 · answered by Peter-Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are over possesive about your husband. I try to give you a good idea in short. you keep busy yourself. Do the job outside and be busy as much as you can. make your other friend. join some kitty party. or else do some social work if you can,I mean to say do whatever you can do but spend your lots of time outside the house . so that you can get more conversation with other peoples also and you feel more good and comfortable.Try to ignore your Husband. Only do his needful work like, food etc. don`t always try to show him that you love him and you are keen to keep phisical relation with him. First realise him that you also keep some value in his life.and realise him that how much caring you was and the time when you need him, he was not there for you.
I am sure when he will realise his mistake he will start caring for you as well as love you. Hope it will help you a lot.
2007-08-30 02:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by shweta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is worth taking your own life. NOTHING. It hurts when someone we love doesnt return that love, i know. Ive been thru it too, unable to think of anyone or anything else. You have to remind yourself of all the things that make you happy: your friends, your family, a rainbow. Dont take them for granted. Reach out for support from those around you that DO love you, and if they arent around, then see your doctor for help. You have so much love to give inside, and you know what? There are sooooo many people out there who would GLADLY accept your love and return the same!! Dont ever forget that!! Give yourself and others a chance! You are too valuable to this world not to be in it! You'll see :)
2007-08-30 02:50:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is NEVER the answer! If you want to quit life than quit, but at your funeral you will be known as a quiter, the only memory of you will be pity!
Further more, I know he is your husband and this is breaking your heart, but maybe this is happening for a reason. Can you look yourself in the mirror and say you honestly love yourself? You have to learn to love yourself first over any man. If you did, you would not be miserable without him, hurt yes, but not miserable. Let me tell you somthing, we allllll come into this worl alone and we leave this world alone. Nobody is gauranteed to hold your hand alll through life, not your husband, not your children, mother, brother or sister. This life is about maiking it through goo times and bad. You have to understadn we all have our own journey, and your husband has his too. Part of that journey was with you in it, and now maybe you too have reached the end of the road. Its hard, and its scary, but be strong and hold your head up, and get yourself together to leave. Either you inniciate it or he will, because nobody wants to live unhappily and obviously one of is unhappy. It is going to be scary being on your own, but you will look bacck over htis mountain when its all said and done and see a beautiful sunset, thats what life is all about going through the wildernest to see the light at the end. Good luck, and remember to learn to take care of you first and always, dont let him control your sanity.
2007-08-30 02:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by JASMINE T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the two of you need marriage counseling.
Why would you even consider suicide before getting counceling. That's just a sign that you don't REALLY want help, just an easy way out.
The best things in life aren't those that come easily. If your marriage is important to you, seek counseling. You'll feel much better, and you'll probably also find a way to make your husband happy again.
2007-08-30 02:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off you cant even spell suicide...
secondly, people who talk of suicide arent going to do it... unless the gun is in your hand right now...
Thirdly, why in the hell would you end your life over a man that doesnt love you. What about EVERYONE else that does and dont say they dont matter... mom... dad... lil brother or sister.... friends... church members... WHO EVER...
slap some sense in you ... life may be REALLY tough but once you have hit rock bottom.. which you might be there right now .... things then can only get better. REMEBER THAT!!!
2007-08-30 02:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by Life is simply beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is never the answer.. you wouldnt be around to see how he will react when you are gone..
if he doesn't want divorce.. trying a break.. stay seperated for a while.. go to your parents/friends or just go away on a vacation, then maybe he will realize how big of a part you are of his life..
but remember taking your life will not make him love you.
Best of luck... if nothing works then you have to keep an open mind their is always someone out there who will love you for you.
2007-08-30 02:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by MrsGill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NightFlower, you need to move on with your life if he doesn't love you anymore. There is so much happiness waiting for you in the world. GO AND GET IT! Find out who NightFlower is!!! You cannot rely on someone else to make you completely happy. You must be happy with yourself first. You must be an individual first. Don't give up. Find a new path to take. You are the master of your own destiny. I wish you luck and happiness.
2007-08-30 02:34:34 · answer #10 · answered by cookiesheet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋