He buys alcohol once a week, nothing strong, but enough. I do worry about it, but its not my place to mention it. I am not one to tell people what to do. Long story--short of it--was married before and got hurt emotionally and verbally. No name calling or hitting. Just certain things said. However, I learned to keep my mouth shut.
2007-08-30 02:19:50 · 8 answers · asked by totally confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So he has to be nearly 3 sheets to the wind in order to have sex? And you accept this out of him? It should be your place to mention his alcohol consumption. You live together right? By keeping your mouth shut your guy will continue to bring home the alcohol and will liquor himself up to have sexual relations with you...what does that say about you??
2007-08-30 02:30:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out of the relationship... You don't have to tell him what to do, but you do need to stand up for yourself. Your safety comes first! There was a reason your last marriage ended... Now end this relationship too and find someone who will treat you right. You don't deserve to be abused, in any way, shape, or form! This guy that you're with now isn't worth your time, or worth you getting hurt again...
2007-08-30 09:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is certainly a cause for concern that you may be following the same patter. You shouldn't have to keep your mouth shut....THAT ISN'T A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP!
2007-08-30 09:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
UM...... been there... doing it! Get OUT before you have kids and they grow up thinking this is normal. You are in for a WORLD of hurt if you keep it up. I promise you that.
2007-08-30 09:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by hnfs73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if his drinking concerns you then you should mention it. being in a relationship means that you have a right to speak up and be heard.
2007-08-30 09:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by sumfin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You better learn to speak up and let him know he better not ever drink around you.
2007-08-30 09:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So anotherwards you have become a door mat?!?! Leave this guy if he even slightly reminds you of your Ex...
2007-08-30 09:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what ...are you 10 ........!!
2007-08-30 09:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋