Isn't that just life?
I got this in the mail today...one of the few things that DOES make sense!
The other day a young person asked me how I felt about being old. I was taken aback, for I do not think of myself as old. Upon seeing my reaction, she was immediately embarrassed, but I explained that it was an interesting question, and I would ponder it, and let her know.
Old Age, I decided, is a gift.
I am now, probably for the first time in my life, the person I
have always wanted to be. Oh, not my body! I sometime despair over my body, the wrinkles, the baggy eyes, and the sagging butt. And often I am taken aback by that old person that lives in my mirror (who looks like my mother!), but I don't agonize over those things for long.
I would never trade my amazing friends, my wonderful life, my
loving family for less gray hair or a flatter belly. As I've aged,
I've become more kind to myself, and less critical of myself. I've become my own friend.
I don't chide myself for eating that extra cookie, or for not
making my bed, or for buying that silly cement gecko that I didn't need, but looks so avante garde on my patio. I am entitled to a treat, to be messy, to be extravagant.
I have seen too many dear friends leave this world too soon;
before they understood the great freedom that comes with aging.
Whose business is it if I choose to read or play on the computer until 4 AM and sleep until noon? I will dance with myself to those wonderful tunes of the 60&70's, and if I, at the same time, wish to weep over a lost love I will.
I will walk the beach in a swim suit that is stretched over a
bulging body, and will dive into the waves with abandon if I choose to, despite the pitying glances from the jet set.
They, too, will get old.
I know I am sometimes forgetful. But there again, some of life is just as well forgotten. And I eventually remember the important things.
Sure, over the years my heart has been broken. How can your heart not break when you lose a loved one, or when a child suffers, or even when somebody's beloved pet gets hit by a car? But broken hearts are what give us strength and understanding and compassion. A heart never broken is pristine and sterile and will never know the joy of being imperfect.
I am so blessed to have lived long enough to have my hair turning gray, and to have my youthful laughs be forever etched into deep grooves on my face. So many have never laughed, and so many have died before their hair could turn silver.
As you get older, it is easier to be positive. You care less
about what other people think. I don't question myself
anymore. I've even earned the right to be wrong.
So, to answer your question, I like being old. It has set me
free. I like the person I have become. I am not going to live
forever, but while I am still here, I will not waste time lamenting what could have been, or worrying about what will be. And I shall eat dessert every single day. (If I feel like it)
2007-08-31 10:28:22
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answered by Anonymous
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Rarely. Maybe you're just tired. Say a little prayer and try to sleep for a couple of hours. You'll feel like new when you wake up. Here's a hug!
...and a star.
:)
2007-08-30 10:33:42
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answered by Anonymous
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I had one of those last night at work. In fact, I've had too many of those kind of days involving work.
2007-08-30 09:38:09
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answered by BigJake418 7
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Yes, I usually crawl back in bed, get a nap, and hope it's better when I wake up.
2007-08-30 11:51:18
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answered by Anonymous
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Hey sweetie,
I've been having one of those days for the past week !
Hugs,
2007-08-30 10:42:44
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answered by ? 6
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That's the story of my life, lately.
2007-08-30 09:25:57
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answered by Anonymous
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Especially when it goes wrong right from the get go. Then you know your in trouble.
2007-08-30 09:30:56
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answered by Bru 6
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I've got some coming up this weekend. My brother and his wife will be in town. HELP ME!!!
2007-08-30 09:26:01
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answered by brwneyedgrl 6
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Yes, I am sure tomorrow will be one of 'em
2007-08-30 09:24:04
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answered by cherrie022 5
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yes
2007-08-30 09:26:26
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answered by O.o 2
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