Well,I've been pregnant from some weeks ago.I asked that can I and my husband have sex or not?the answer was yes.So we did it.But now my husband says that I really wanna feel your skin and the wetness in your vagina!I don't want my baby to be injured and he doesn't want,too.But he says he doesn't like the condom!What can I do?Is it OK without a condom?!By the way,my husband doesn't have any disease.
2007-08-30 01:57:05 · 13 answers · asked by Lovely Girl 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It's your HUSBAND, girlfriend. And you are PREGNANT. Why not do it without a condom? I take birth control and my husband doesn't use a condom. We are 100% faithful to eachother and we love eachother so I don't see why not.
It won't hurt your baby to have sex...my friend actually had sex the day before she went into labor. If the obstetrician says it's okay, it can actually help you relax and in the later stages of pregnancy when you are READY to have it, it can help contractions come along and they will be easier.
Just make sure, after your pregnancy, that you use a birth control method right after your six week postpardum check up. DO NOT HAVE SEX AFTER PREGNANCY WITHOUT PROTECTION OR YOU WILL GET PREGNANT AGAIN!
You gyno should discuss all of the methods that work with breastfeeding so that won't be an issue, and if you're not breast feeding then you need to start thinking about which method is best for you immediately after birth.
It's very important unless you want two toddlers running your household.
Good Luck!
2007-08-30 04:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by Tina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So why you use a condom again? Not to get pregnant and not to get infected. If I was married and i knew and trusted my husband I wouldn't even consider to make him use a condom.
2007-08-30 09:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um, since you are already pregnant he has no need to wear a condom.
Talk to the doctor, you can have sex for the first few months at least.
2007-08-30 12:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will only injure the baby when you are close to the end of your nine months, other than that if you feel discomfort, tell him to stop, without condoms is fine
2007-08-30 09:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by Single again 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey your baby is safe from your husband... your baby is in a sac.... that protects him from everything that is on the outside coming in.... If your dr. says you can have sex... what are you waiting for?
2007-08-30 09:05:21 · answer #5 · answered by No Drama for this Queen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can skip the condom, you're already pregnant so what does it matter ?
There is no risk to the baby.
2007-08-30 09:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by Lucy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The cow is out of the barn, so ditch the condom. If he is healthy there is no reason to wear it.
2007-08-30 09:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by Brian A 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't harm the baby through sex. I wouldnt worry about it.
2007-08-30 09:04:14 · answer #8 · answered by itskungfu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think its fine not to have to use protection...but check again with your doc to see if it is really okay
there are other contraceptives, but again im not sure if you could use them while being preganant...best thing to do is talk to the expert, your doctor!
2007-08-30 09:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by Oops! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES IT IS OKAY WITHOUT A CONDOM =) now go on
2007-08-30 09:20:09 · answer #10 · answered by saraツ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋