I see all kinds of questions in here so negative about men cheating when women cheat too, and for guys who have been cheated on by their wife or g/f, it hurts just as much for the guys, as it does for the women when they are cheated on.
Just interested to see what you all have to say.
2007-08-30 01:48:04 · 16 answers · asked by Bryan M 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I just wish people would stop grouping ALL men or ALL women into categories like this - we don't all act the same just because of the body parts we've been given. Seriosuly, not all men are cheaters and not all women are either. People cheat because they're selfish and stupid. Instead of dealing with their problems in a healthy matter, they seek comfort where they shouldn't. OR they do it because they just don't love themselves or the person they're with. These people are immature and shouldn't be used to represent the entire male or female population.
Grow up people, bad things happen, but that doesn't mean EVERYONE is bad.
2007-08-30 01:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Um... The women that blame men are the women who got cheated on. I don't see much in an all men here, just their man that cheated. And yes, women cheat too. It happens, no excuses, just wrong for either party to do so.
2007-08-30 01:53:25 · answer #2 · answered by Beatngu 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think one reason why men cheat is because we're naturally polygamous. I don't see that as a negative thing (it's neutral) because it helps differentiate real men from mere boys. The moment you've won over this natural impulse to cheat or to be disloyal (or just be polygamous), that's the time when you'd be able to say that you're a real man.
As for women, I'm not sure what's the usual reason why some of them cheat. But for both sexes, I think another reason would be because our generation is beginning to develop the bad habit of getting everything that we want without regard to other people's feelings. I hope we could overcome this trend one day....
2007-08-30 02:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since its pretty unlikely that these men are cheating with each OTHER, then obviously women cheat too.
I consider it to be the ultimate betrayal in a relationship, and the END of it.
I don't believe the liars who can cheat & still claim they LOVE the person they cheated on.....the love I have for my mate completely rules out ever cheating on him. And I expect the same from him.
2007-08-30 01:59:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is what i think both of them cheat for different reason so one can not blame the other for cheating and look down on each other they both have done the same thing. It hurts whether the man cheats or the woman.
2007-08-30 02:23:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes/No For a lot of women, especially those that have been married for a while, it's easier to blame the other woman instead of being mad at your spouse, whom you've loved and cared for for so many years. It SHOULD be that women are mad at their spouses, since it was their spouses choice to cheat. However, anger is directed towards the other woman for not being able to keep her nose in her own business.
2016-04-02 07:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be with one person only than you should make that clear and not have one bf/gf, If you are married and are not /can't be faithful then get a divorce and then run around all you want. If you are not married yet, make sure this is the person you want to be with for the rest of your life. For those that are getting married make sure you are being honest about who you are and don't change as soon as you get married, because you are not being the person the other thought you where. There is no reason to cheat no matter what sex you are.
2007-08-30 02:06:00 · answer #7 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its because women are more vocal than men.. they tend to speak out their feelings where men tend to keep things bottled up.. Also men in general don't want to share with the world that they have been cheated on... it hurts enough already without the public knowledge that "He wasn't good enough".
2007-08-30 01:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by sumfin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea, it hurts all the way around
usually a woman that cheats is truly seeking something that they aren't getting, but men can just cheat to have sex...that could be part of the blame game
2007-08-30 01:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think there are probably more women on this board in general, so that would explain why there appears to be a disproportionate number of female posts. however, i have seen and answered numerous posts from hurt husbands. btw, we aren't responsible for who posts and who doesn't. so if men don't come here to post about their cheating wives, then there aren't any avenues for us to air our opinions or support.
i think we all agree that cheating is wrong under any circumstances. perhaps this links will help.
there are 9,667 posts from men about their wives cheating, however not all of them were posted to the marriage adn divorce section. i think you will see how much all emphathise with these men.
http://answers.yahoo.com/search/search_result;_ylt=AusdNPsS.tKJGCmrOuKHr1Xpy6IX?p=wife+cheated
2007-08-30 01:58:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋