Why is it that love forms between people from the same sex?
I get scared sometimes as I know that same-sex relationships dont have any real future when it comes to having kids...it makes me kinda sad...but i cant help who i fall in love with and I dont know why God choose for me to love girls....
Do you have any idea why? The reason behind it?
What is the point?
BTW, It's my Birthday today, I'm 19, hehe....:)
2007-08-30 01:37:30 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The main reason behind Same Sex marriages and Unions is the same reason behind heterosexual unions. Love. Although heterosexual unions *can* produce children -- and often do -- some don't. Some are barren because of either spouses inability to produce the correct seed, therefor the union itself produces nothing and the two remain childless -- just like their homosexual friends.This doesn't mean that the couple breaks apart and goes their seperate ways because they just can't have children. They came together in Love and that's the way they stay -- because of Love.
Love is a binder of a great many things. My Partner and I have been together for 27 years and the only children we have are furry and feline but we love them nonetheless.
By the way, my Dear One, Happy Birthday. Your parents Love you too, and you are a DEFINITELY reason for great Love.
2007-08-30 03:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what if it wasn't God but a choice made by oneself?
why i said that...b'coz since small, i always wanted to be a boy so every night I would imagine myself as a boy,the things that I would do,how would it like to have a girlfriend...etc.
but lately, four years ago to be exact, i realized i have been rejecting being a girl (i talk,walk & dress like a guy,girly things is big no no) and I wondered could i have been "unconsciously" programming myself?
So in this 3 years, i try to embrace my "feminine" side and feels that the desire to love another woman or become boy is not as strong as before. (i find that my "desire" drop drastically since i stopped daydreaming or imagining myself with other woman)
Now, I'm in a state of whether I "still" want to be gay or straight?
And finally, I realized love doesn't happen accidentally but rather when we allow that love to grow inside of us.
Is there any1 out there who experience the same things that I do?
2007-08-30 11:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by authenticmiao 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all...happy birthday!
second, don't be sad about your future....who told you that a same-sex relationship has no future when it comes to having kids? we have quite a few gay/lesbian friends who have children (biological, not adopted), and they are happy, healthy, well-adjusted kids with 2 parents who love them. sure, we may not have children in the "traditional" way, but we CAN and DO. We may not understand what God's plan is for creating us the way He did, but we know it's how we are born, not something that's chosen.
2007-08-30 10:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that there is a reason per se. God created people to be people. He loves all of us the way that we are. And, I believe, that He wants us to express that love.
As for your comment about same-sex relationships and kids....think again about that. I have two beautiful boys (three year old twins) who I conceived through artificial insemination and carried for almost nine months. My partner (also a female) was a huge part of the process and is as much their parent as I am. If you want to have children, you can....either through artificial insemination, surrogacy or adoption.
2007-08-30 09:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by mouse_726 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem with your question is the god part of it. God's got nothing to do with it.
I also wouldn't spend too much time pitying gay people - many lead happy, productive and fulfilling lives - mostly writing the books you read, the films you watch, the plays you see, culturally enriching other people's lives.
2007-08-30 09:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by chris m 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My guess would be because He wanted to show us that everyone is different so we could learn not to judge and have open minds and accept one another to move forward as a society but unfortunately a lot of people still cant help but to care about who other people have sex with and be homophobic. They’re just ignorant when it comes to life. that’s all. Happy Bday.
2007-08-30 09:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well we have over-population at the momment which is a serious problem.
Also, scientists belive that gay people were originally intended to help out members of his/her family who had children to worry about. For example, the gay uncle could go and help hunt for food to help feed his brother's and sister's kids since he wouldn't have any children of his own to worry about.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TOO!!!!!!!!!!! :D
2007-08-30 08:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by Christian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Happy birthday.
For the kids part, you can still have them. There are options out there.
God chose for you to love girls because I'm sure there's one special woman out there who is your soul-mate. She is the one person put on this earth just for you. I dated men before I found my soul-mate. Then I knew why I wasn't happy before, I was waiting until I found her. I don't think that you should worry too much about this. Just know that you are doing/feeling what you are supposed to feel by loving girls. Your heart knows what's best for you even when your head questions it sometimes.
2007-08-30 08:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by bjorn 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I left you a happy birthday on 360 already.
Why can't a same sex relationship have kids. My best friend is going to be a surrogate mother for my fiance and I. And I will provide genetic material for her girlfriend and her. God created us to further diversify the world. Could you imagine a world where everyone was hetero? It wouldn't seem right to me.
2007-08-30 08:43:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 10⤊ 1⤋
what about straight couples that cant have children? thats practly the same thing.
personally i know this sounds horrible but i dont think i want children anyways, i dont think i want the responcibilty of having to look after someone else, i know its selfish but its the way i feel.
2007-08-30 09:20:06 · answer #10 · answered by Atomic-Aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋