we have a baby together. we have split for over 2 weeks and i want him back! i broke up with him because he didnt have his priorities straight! i didnt want it to be long term but now hes met someone but he says its nothing serious! how can i get him back!
2007-08-29 23:54:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dear Sophie,
He will continue to disapoint you because he is not committed to being a father & partner. You split with him for good reason by the sounds of it - he wasn't pulling his weight or supporting you appropriately, then he meets another girl within 2 weeks of seperating with you???? Do you want to be a doormat? I don't get the impression that this man loves you as much as he loves himself. Get on with your life & be independant, don't end up pathetic & depressed with a child the same. Sorry but it's the same old storey time and again with men who behave this way.
2007-08-30 00:11:10 · answer #1 · answered by Mishell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's met someone else within just 2 weeks of spliting with you?..Sorry baby but obviously he didn't care that much for you. Has he even been to visit the baby?
Do you really want him back after knowing that he's been with someone else? Why didn't you want to be in a long term with him, you have a baby with him, that's a life long commitment.
2007-08-30 00:04:00 · answer #2 · answered by Luvly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you give him up because his priorities are not straight, now that he has met someone knew you want him back... don't you know a lepoard never changes his spots.......... if he wanted you he would not have met someone new..........if you want him back and he says it is not serious then just ask, but remember he will be the same person that you sent away...
2007-08-30 00:07:33 · answer #3 · answered by belle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To start with,i will blame you for not considering the fact that you have a kid together.This was a very simple issue that you should have resolved with him amicably.
For him to find another lady in less than 2 weeks shows how stupid and selfish he is.'WATER FOLLOWS THE STREAM'if he realy loves you and the baby,he will definately come for you.You realy dont need to fight for him if he loves you.Mind you,love waits
2007-08-30 00:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you left him for a reason and now you want him back because he has started seeing someone else. remember your reasons for leaving and remember that they are not going to change. go out with someone else even if your not really interrested, and youll see if he wants to lose you by wanting to change the problems the two of you had or if your going to be better off without him. if knowing that your seeing someone else and that theres going to be another man around his child doesnt make him want to change and want you back,then remember your better off knowing this now.
2007-08-30 00:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hes found someone new adn now you want him back? not sure he'll come back now.
2007-09-02 15:32:27 · answer #6 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋