I have wasted many years of my life. Now I feels that I have left far behind in my life.
Please help ................
2007-08-29 23:17:08 · 14 answers · asked by @rrsu 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Many many thanks to all of you for your support and showing me the positive way to deal with such a situation.
Now it seems that the world is full of so many good people....
2007-09-02 18:00:39 · update #1
Rather than focus what has passed you by you should start to focus on what you can do from this point onwards. We have all made mistakes and missed opportunities. But rarely ever is it too late to affect a change in your life, if you adopt the right strategy and have willpower and determination. Perhaps some professional guidance would be good for you. Just rememer, while you sit around lamenting the things you haven't done life is still merrily passing you buy. Get hold of it now!
2007-08-29 23:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by Stu147 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get up and get back on the road where you left off. Make yourself get to that point and then you can start to move forward. It is never too late. You cannot make up for the lost time, but you can start today to move forward instead of standing still in life as you have been. Many of us have wasted years, but in those years, you learn things you would not have otherwise learned, so they were not actually wasted completely. You will have to push yourself to get up and back on track. I did that same thing years ago, but am now finally moving forward and am proud of myself for doing so. I now have a destination/goal to reach, and am determined to do so. That is what you need, determination. Go back to school, go back and do some of the things you missed out on doing before. After that, you can have nowhere to go other than forward.
2007-08-29 23:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by Angelic Valentine 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read the Bible in Jeremiah 33:3, Isiah 59:1 and Jeremiah 29:11
2007-08-29 23:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by dynaset 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you say i "catch" lack of confidence!!! Why? Dont let yourself down and dont think about what you have done! Everyone in some period of his or her life go through a depressing! That makes them feel stronger and positive thinking! You must take energy and think about your future whithout anxiety and bad mood! Dont ever forget that only you and nobody can change the way you are thinking now and what you have in mind!!! Many kisses and whatever you need we all gonna help you!
2007-08-29 23:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by baby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all sorry that you have been depressed but you can't dwell of your past or your just going to be stuck where you are. Try to sit down and figure out what you want out of life and make it happen you can't just sit and daydream about the possibilities you have to go out there and get it. I used to feel that way along time ago I had 3 kids and I felt that my life was over all my goal's and everything I wanted to accomplish in my life. One day I realized that I am pushing them to achieve something out of life and if I wanted them to achieve something i needed to start pushing myself as well. Now I have a great job and I'm happier as well I have felt like I came along way but I still have a long road ahead of me don't give up it is worth it when you achieve your life to where you want to be. Good luck
2007-08-29 23:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by ~~Just me~~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone waste years in their life. I wasted like 10 yrs getting high and partying. Now I'm married with kids and my life has just begun!!
2007-08-29 23:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by keri_ricker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look to the good side
try to start relationships and make friends no limited time for this things and this important things to everyone you have rest of your life do not waste it and do not look behind look forward and make goals and go for it
and try change your stile in your life do ot repeat the mistakes that you already did
and enjoy yourself but if the depression so extremely go to the therabist and i hope for you great life.
2007-08-29 23:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by cool724 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you know you've wasted it, then you shouldn't waste a minute more! learn from that mistake of wasting life away! g out, laugh harder, make new friends, do somthing inspirering, see the world, quit your job, accept what you haven't done, and do what you've always wanted to do! GO FOR IT!
2007-08-29 23:24:04 · answer #8 · answered by can_can_girl_92 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have wasted your life?? in doing what??
If you are referring to relationship then think of it as a learning experience....everytime you fall over, you must get up & start again, dont give up....life is not going to wait for you, you need to make use of it..........remember, we only live once.
2007-08-29 23:20:56 · answer #9 · answered by mimii 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start now before you waste more of it. You should never cry over spilled milk. What is done, is done. Today is a new day with new opportunities. Start today!!!
2007-08-29 23:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋