i so much love the other lady but i dont have to my wife i tried every thing possible to develope love to my wife but infact the love is not there.
2007-08-29 23:16:31 · 12 answers · asked by Ibraheem M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just makin' new plans, Stan.....don't need to be coy, Roy......just drop off the key, Lee------and SET YOURSELF FREE !!! ( They say to look 10 years down the road.....what do you see? Does it look like it will get better or worse ? Decide what you want to do from there. It IS a hard choice, but what do YOU want out of life ? We don't know your circumstances.
2007-08-29 23:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happens alot when you're young & had an arranged marriage. You don't know each when you get married & it gets very difficult to get closer. Also when the couple is from different living standards meaning one from an educated background, rich, & from a city. Whereas the other just the opposite. Lots of cases like this in Indian arranged marriages but if you are a Muslim (if I'm not mistaken) you could get married to many woman, right? I guess, it's best to know each other very well before getting married...
2007-08-29 23:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try thinking out the reasons for why you love this other woman and the reasons for which you could love your wife.
I am guessing you dont know this other woman very well, so you reasons for loving her would be mostly due to infatuation.
Hold onto the reasons for which you could love your wife and allow some time to pass. Its possible that you might develop love for your wife.
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2007-08-29 23:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by Vijay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you no longer love your wife, you have to file for divorce. Marriage is only because you both love eachother. You can't possibly stay together if you don't love her and especially if you love someone else. You're ruining both your lives.
Save your wife and tell her how you feel and that you do have to leave, because no matter what it's going to happen.
2007-08-30 00:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, divorce her. You are in America where everything is possible. Don't cheat on her, she already is suffering because I'm sure she knows you don't love her. Just leave her and go on with your life and let her get on with hers. She deserves to be happy and loved by someone too!
2007-08-29 23:28:49 · answer #5 · answered by ANDREA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok so it's not a tough solution. If you and your wife are not in love then why stayed married? Cut the ties now before it gets any deeper.
2007-08-29 23:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by pph24013 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Either divorce or leave the other woman alone and get some marriage counseling. You can not have it both ways.
2007-08-29 23:21:42 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats not love, stay with your wife.
2007-08-29 23:20:17 · answer #8 · answered by keri_ricker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try harder man.how does ur wife feel.u made an oath to love her while getting married right-no matter what?
2007-08-29 23:21:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this happens a lot. you need to get your priorities in order
2007-08-29 23:22:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋