I am 5'3" adult male
i don't want to have Short man Complex
2007-08-29 21:40:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's called Napoleon complex. Go to WBMD or google it and see if you have the behavior symptoms. Does your success,happiness and intelligence come at other peoples expense? Do you feel inferior to taller people/women and it causes you to act like an ***? It's been my experience that people who are symptomatic of the Napoleon complex syndrome would never recognize that they have it let alone admit it! It's part of the problem of having it so maybe you don't.
2007-09-06 17:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by mein1962 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how old you are...you might still add inches...many guys do up until they are 21 or so.
You have to know who you are.....what you are good at...and how much you "height" has to do with it. In other words...could you think better, and smarter if you were taller? Can you love someone more if you are taller? The only thing that being taller helps is maybe reaching the high shelf!
If your height bothers you some, then find a girl shorter than you. But know that your success in life isn't based on how tall you are, but who you are as a person. They are not the same thing.
And one of the happiest couples I have ever known what a woman about 5'10" and a guy about 5'4 or so...and it didn't bother them a bit! They just thought it was very funny, and they were really in love!...and had a very happy marriage!
The "complex" comes when the guy thinks his height is so important....it isn't!
2007-09-05 20:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by samantha 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I know a lot of shorter men, and as long as they are good men, I do not care HOW tall they are. You should be proud of yourself, no matter how tall you are. Be thankful that you are well and think good thoughts every moment. I would much rather go with a shorter man who was kind and considerate than some tall conceited 6 foot hunk of lies. Be good to yourself and be proud of who you are inside.
2007-09-06 06:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
do you drive a big car, do you wear platform shoes, do you act like your eight foot tall, do you dream of being bigger then everyone else, do you belittle others to make yourself feel good, do you have to sit in a highchair to eat, do your feet swing in the air when your on the toilet. if not no you don't have short man complex.
2007-09-06 11:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by stanley w 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you know. Do you only date women you are taller than? do you try to act really tough, w/the tough man walk? do you act tougher than you are just to prove you are not a weakling?Who cares if you are short? If someone doesn't like you because of that then you are better off without them..
2007-09-06 15:47:29 · answer #5 · answered by mia m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you think you have to kick everyones ***, is everything a reason to get in someones face, do you show off, do you walk with your arms slightly bent and your fists clenched, have you taken up body building.....if you don't show any of these signs your safe if you have even one of these it is living right under the surface and could rear its ugly head at anytime, more than one you are doomed.....
2007-08-29 21:48:21 · answer #6 · answered by humboldt1965amy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
meet the short women like yourself and you wont' have a problem
2007-09-02 15:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be happy with your self ....thats the way the good lord made u....he made tall .....med.....short ..people ...and theres not a ting wrong with beein short.....
2007-09-05 20:21:21 · answer #8 · answered by bama2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im under a 6ft 1 amazon woman WOOHOO - Im 6 ft 3 and you are a tiny little man - who the hell cares, wear some platform shoes and shut the hell up!
Woohoo, im in a threeway with 2 women - see thats what tall guys get - the little men get to rent the DVD!!!!!
2007-08-29 21:46:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 6⤋
Just mind your business when you around us normal sized people and we wont have to F you up. I dont mind the little people but when they think they are better than everyone else then thats when we have a problem.
2007-08-29 22:10:58 · answer #10 · answered by ATM 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋