aren't going right....i feel that i am not connected to this world?I feel that i am the greatest example for an failure..
Do you feel the same some times?
2007-08-29 21:39:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It is just a phase ...you will get over it.
2007-08-29 22:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by Aquamarine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel exactly the same since 6 months ago and understand you. I used to be naughty and happy in the past too. You feel a failure because you lack of luck, you may not have someone to share your secrets, others don't understand your needs, you may have done some things wrong and nobody helped you surpass your sadness.
You should free yourself.
Proper advice:
Take some time for yourself, your hobbies and your concentration to your thoughts
Find some ways to make your life better
Go for a long walk at a place you love being to
Play some music CDs of your favourite kind
Start loving yourself
Every time you feel upset meet friends and have fun together till you forget your misery
2007-08-30 06:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by AИИA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay normally when one hits this period there is either a major change coming into play. What happened or about to happen to bring these feeling on. Something has triggered this off.
Is graduation around the corner. By next June. Have your friends succeed in knowing where they are going or what they will be doing??: Where as your still not sure.
The best way to deal with this disconnection is to set goal and work to achieve them.
Nothing is worse then not having any goal etc. Once goals are there is a sense of purpose. Once each goal is reached there is a sense of achievement.
2007-08-30 06:56:37 · answer #3 · answered by wondermom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cool and think why things are not going on your side, what are the mistakes I'm doing. Never blame others it is the easiest part in a human life to blame others for his failure.
And never expect anything from anyone because expectations give you lot of dis-satisfactions.
Look forward not behind
these are the things I can say You because I felt the same way and made things very difficult for myself but learned a lot from them.
All the best
2007-08-30 07:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by The More I learn The More I'm Uneducated 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you being naught is the reason, your conscience caught up to you! Try doing good stuff for other people without expecting anything back! It doesn't have to be something big, it might a nice word for someone that needs to hear it, or giving up your chair for an old lady! Something kind will positively bring a smile on your face and theirs!
2007-08-30 05:06:02 · answer #5 · answered by Amy ;) 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take this oppurtunity as a gift from god and take a jump into him .Even Arjuna felt the same thing and Krishna gave him the Gita .Pray to him and ask him to give him your Gita!surrender now OR you will never get a chance!!
2007-08-30 09:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by shivamat bhairav 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you feel deceived by some one whom you believed. Don't worry for anything. Be cheerful. In life you have go meet so many persons, occasions, incidents, which you may not like, but you should know to come out of it. All these things are just like a CHAKRA VIYUHA and as you grow up you should learn to come out. Have positive thinking and you will come out successfully.Best of luck-
2007-08-30 05:34:03 · answer #7 · answered by Jayaraman 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i know there's worse than me but i know what you mean. I had a funny thought today, i'll share, maybe, It's the end of summer maybe you didn't get everything you wanted and mating season is almost over. better luck next year;^)
take as motivation to shake it up a little.
2007-08-30 04:46:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are growing up.... a lot of things you see and hear which you can't explain. you have a choice but so difficult to make it. you make a wrong choice and blaming yourself. nothing is smooth.
everyone will go thru' that stage of life.... learn to accept and let it out. there are people who is worst than you. life is beautiful and mysterious!
2007-08-30 10:47:32 · answer #9 · answered by sCorpiOLAdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a person who is at a crossroad should select one road to go... you have desire to go on more than one road... diverse thoughts are coming in your mind that's why you feel like this
select one school of thoughts... and work hard... your problem will be over...
2007-08-30 07:40:50 · answer #10 · answered by Harish Jharia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
Never
It is just a matter of time.
May be one or two hours.
Relax.
And dream about evening.
You have something to do.
Remember that.
2007-08-30 05:20:29 · answer #11 · answered by Shripathi Krishna Acharya 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋