Im a prisons officer who recently witnessed a death sentence and got depressed coz the person who was sentenced was arrested by me whe i was in the police.The most shocking thing came after i learnt that he was the ex-husband of my secretary who in a conversation with me revealed the truth. After she told this we had an instant attraction and we had sex several times. Later i was guilty of it but again we started to do it at least twice a day. For me this attraction to her came mostly coz of her attractiveness and also coz of my control over her ex-husband's fate and her pleasure and admiration for my position and what i did to her late hubby. I still enjoy this relationship a lot but what I dont know is why I get so turned on coz of the above things...pls...explain.
2007-08-29 20:59:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Sounds like the makings of a bad romance novel! maybe you should write a book about it!
2007-08-29 21:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by bender_xr217 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This goes much deeper than any of the answers I've seen. You already mentioned the guilt you feel but probably haven't really processed. You have some "control" over her and didn't have any control over what happened to him. Part of the turn on is the "taboo" part of it...and knowing you are in control, and in whatever way making up for his death (good or bad ). Just be aware of all the trauma you have lived with and how it affects you, and being a "rescuer " is part of life for most of us that are "helpers".
If none of the issues are really issues then maybe it's meant to be, but you owe it to yourself and her to at least "process" some of the possibilites
2007-08-29 21:36:30 · answer #2 · answered by mysihba 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who is conscious? in line with hazard you skilled some sort of "love in the beginning up sight" phenomenon. in case you do figured it out, permit me comprehend using fact I actual have the comparable difficulty. i could venture some sort of hatred air of secrecy that makes specific human beings in simple terms hate the dwelling Christ out of me in the previous ever appealing in a communicate. it rather is the case for women folk and males alike. i'm not a advise guy or woman, and jointly as i'm no Brad Pitt, i might opt for to think of that i'm a useful finding guy. the actuality continues to be notwithstanding that some human beings in simple terms f()cking hate me and that i will not determine it out. i've got continuously was hoping that there replace into some thank you to teach it off, notwithstanding it in simple terms by no skill is going away. in line with hazard some persons are in simple terms hardwired that way. the two way, being doomed to a lonely existence isnt the worst situation interior the worldwide, a minimal of i comprehend that i will by no skill could get married. -J.
2016-12-31 07:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by marica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its probably normal because death is an aphrodisiac. You were depressed and the death had an affect on you as well as your sexual partner. Thats pretty hot though, sounds like something for a porn director.
2007-08-29 21:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by AO099 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're doing something that you feel is somehow "forbidden" and the thrill of getting away with it turns you on. Stop doing this destructive behavior and get a grip on yourself.
2007-08-29 21:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by Richard B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are a guy all guys like 2 have sex maybe she is hot
2007-08-29 21:06:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is what it is and theres no reason to label it.
just have fun.
2007-08-29 21:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by LaPalma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE TOTALY BAD..... stop it...
2007-08-29 21:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋