i'm not trying to have i'm just wondering because when i do get older i don't want pain/no pain to come to a suprise lol
2007-08-29 19:36:21 · 12 answers · asked by MotherNature 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It cracks me up that there are guys answering this question - how would they know how it feels for a girl to have sex?
Anyway, I can only speak from my own experience. I didn't bleed like everyone told me I would. I did hurt, but only at first. Just make sure that you guys make out a lot first, so you've had time to lubricate down there, and only do it if you're really relaxed. If you're anxious and all tensed up, it's going to hurt a lot more. Hope that helps.
2007-08-29 20:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by Chelsea79 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It isn't the same for everyone. Many women don't feel any pain at all. Some feel pain if their hymen is torn during sex but it is rarely intense pain and doesn't last long. A few women do have a lot of pain because they have a thick hymen and because their vaginal muscles are very tense at the time.
You should be relaxed and feel comfy with it at the time. Foreplay is always a good thing and a very important part of good sex. Take your time with it so you can relax and be aroused. There's no rush. Having ky handy is a good idea and you may want to be on top so you can set the pace. Just relax and go slow.
You probably won't feel much pain and maybe not any but if it really hurts and you are really really tense, give it a rest for that time. Don't force it. Take time out and do something else that feels good and that won't be painful right then. You can always try again later. Sex should be beautiful not painful.
Hope this helps :)
2007-08-29 21:16:32 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ ~Sigy the Arctic Kitty~♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some pain, not terrible. Bleeding will happen, light or heavy like a period if you havn't broken your hymen yet.
Of course it helps to be relaxed, and that will come with being with the right person. Married or not.
2007-08-29 19:44:45 · answer #3 · answered by Mandy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex is different for absolutely everyone!! Some people feel a little pain when their "cherry pops" and some don't. The more you relax when that special times comes, the less discomfort you will feel. Just remember ENJOY and have FUN!!!
2007-08-29 19:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by horrid_tam 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
From the virgins I was the first for, I learned this along the way.
If both are slow, patient and take their time, it can be quite nice even the first time.
Rush it along too fast, and it'll hurt you rather a lot.
So when the day comes, take your time, ok?
2007-08-30 02:34:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After my marraige, Mylife partner and myself get pain for first week during intercoursing, I couldn't able to insert in to her for first week, since both get pain. But we keep on trying. After 10 days it was ok eveying. This is my case. but i come to know that it may depens on the person.
2007-08-29 20:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by Bala 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends on if the vaginal opening is narrow or not.....this is not determined by how small or large a woman is...but for the most part women do experience pain for their first experience...i didn't though?? so..i dunno...is didn't hurt is was just really weird at first
2007-08-29 19:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by i am info 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
each experience is unique. you might feel pain or none at all. what's important is, when you do it, make sure you're ready and ready to face the consequences it may bring
2007-08-29 19:41:48 · answer #8 · answered by sigmund fudd 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait for sex until marriage and it will be the most special enjoyable sex you would ever enjoy.
2007-08-29 19:39:22 · answer #9 · answered by PAboy05 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If u asking this question u r way to young. It hurts, u will b scared/excited. The excitement can get to u. it seems like its soooo cool. You will understand the importance of it when u r older. please wait. if u cant Please protect yourself.
2007-08-29 19:58:07 · answer #10 · answered by abvarela 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋