im 13 and im a girl with a girlfriend whom i love very very much. and we havent told anyone yet cuz she doesnt want her older brother to know and i emailed her and her mom read it and it said "i love you more then you know" on it. and my mom said to me "i know you have a crush on her". and im scared tht everyone knows but we just dont know they know (tounge twister lol). so im just really sacred everyone knows.....any advice on how to deal with all of this and do you think they know?
2007-08-29 18:49:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
my mom and i arent exactly close...she trashed my childhood and left me home alone for weeks at a time so we dont talk much. and i dont know wht my dad would think cuz he's never said anything about it...ive never heard him critisize gay ppl or do anything like tht but i just dont know wht he'd think cuz im daddy's little girl...im his only kid
2007-08-29 18:58:55 · update #1
They know. But in this case..it should be a relief that they know. They haven't judged you...they didn't yell at you. They still love you........no matter what. When your ready to "come out"..it won't be a shock to them. Your just scared, and that's natural. Your parents aren't going to hate you...they love you. Tell them when you feel comfortable. If your parents ask..go ahead and tell them just to get it off your chest, but I'm telling you...they already know. Parents aren't as dumb as you think. YOU ARE GOING TO BE JUST FINE.
2007-08-29 18:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mothers know everything (nearly.) I suggest you go talk to your mum and ask her not to tell, because you and your girlfriend aren't ready to share. Don't worry if people do know, you can't really help that, so worrying won't help.
You'd probably get better advice by posting this in the gay and lesbian section though. They've all been in the same position before.
2007-08-29 19:00:37 · answer #2 · answered by Rosie_0801 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are just a little mixed-up girl who is getting brain-washed about your sexuality by all the B.S. they are using to indoctrinate you at school! You need to talk to your Rabbi, Priest or Minister and get some of God's guidance in this matter! Any romantic love you could have at your age is what used to be called, "puppy love", or childish infatuation!
2007-08-29 19:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by trebor namyl hcaeb 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They only know if someone told them! Tell every one that knows not to tell, then u wont have 2 worry. But hey, LESBIANS ROCK! You shouldnt be ashamed of your sexuality! Feel free to keep it a secret as long as you like, but you have to come out of the closet sometime! Better sooner than later! Good Luck!
2007-08-29 18:59:58 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetie_Pie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes Trebor is pretty much spot on.
Don't confuse yourself with this confusing world, now full of gays and Lesbians.
I would advise you not to encourage her anymore and just let your feeling naturally go back to blokes.
When I was your age, I had this biggest crush on one of a twin and ... we even held hands!
Not that were not with it, but that we are!*
2007-08-30 01:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You might want to look for other people who have been in the same situation. www.outproud.org has links and resources that might be helpful.
2007-08-29 18:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey, maybe it's okay that they know, you know? You won't know until you ask. Your mom sounds cool, you can probably share this with her.
2007-08-29 18:56:34 · answer #7 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea, your mom probably knows, its just best to admit and be who you are....you don't need to hide it, because eventually you'll get caught.....everyone always does...so anyways...just be you, you're young enjoy life.
2007-08-29 18:57:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋