What's the one thing that you wish you HAD said to someone?

Question

Did you think of saying it, but held it back or did you think of it too late?

Answer 1

i wish i told her earlier.........sum1 had gotten to her b4 i did but we're cool now

Answer 2

"I'm sorry and thank you for 12 wonderful years" is the answer. I was the durable power of attorney for a person who was terminally ill with liver cancer; my mate. I made the decision not to call a nurse when he was dying in the hospital because I knew he was suffering. Although had I called a nurse, perhaps a few hours may have been given; yet no more at best.

My mother-in-law was there and asleep and I only woke her up at the last moment so she would not see what I had and so we could say good-bye to her son together. In my arms he died and I saw the last breath he drew as I held him with his mother. He laid with his beautiful green eyes open before I closed them.

I wish I had said, "Daniel, you are a person of great faith, mercy and understanding. You trusted me with your possessions and your life. I hope and think I did the right thing". I pray I did.

Answer 3

I was " placed " with my aunt when I was 8. My aunt & bio. mom are sisters. My bio.mom called to talk to my aunt ... never was I asked to be spoken to during any of their calls. I was 17 & had a lot of resentment for my bio.mom, so I didn't care. My bio mom was telling my aunt that she was going to have a hysterectomy the following day. She was 42 ... she asked to talk to me during this call. She asked me for forgiveness for all the abuse she inflicted upon me from the day I was born until I was placed. I listened to what she said & never replied until it was time to give the phone back to my aunt. All I said was " Good bye! " She died a a results of the operation the next day. No I didn't hold back or think of it later ... Do I wish I'd of said some thing else? 47 yrs. later a part of me does, but the part of me that still suffers the physical damages that I carry as a results of the abuse ... says NOT! The part of me that has let go of the emotional aspect wishes I had. Because it is clear that this woman had SERIOUS MENTAL DISORDERS towards me. Not my 3 bro.'s or my sister. But because no one feed me my bones are like kinneling & that I have to deal with daily. PLEASE, no " You have to let go of these things to move on in life " speaches ... mentally I have let it go, physically I haven't because of how my body is so fragle I had 3 broken arms ( 1 at 9 mo.'s old ) 3 broken legs, an amputation, broken hip & fractured femur at 52 & now I'm sitting on a broken pelvis in 2 places. All except for the amputation ... motorcycle vs car, I lost. Normal bones wouldn't have broken... Man, I feel cleansed, but sorry I bored ya with this stupid answer.

Answer 4

Discretion is the better part of valor - I don't regret holding back and not saying something, ever, because by doing that I showed that I had self-restraint. Seeing a driver raving at a bus driver whose bus was stuck in traffic the other week convinced me again that self-restraint is a good thing.

Answer 5

I love you. Does it count that when I did in return for hers, the moment was not remembered completely by her, and she pushed it aside later, thanking me for not taking advantage of her and all the respect I have for her? Maybe, that's the most special way to say it with all I respect and love her for? I don't think I will ever say it more special than in that way. Thank you! I needed to think of it that way. I'm so proud of myself and know that I am blessed and purring.

Answer 6

"Can I f*ck you?" to Tim Fletcher of The Stills, when I met him June 2006. He was so cool and down to earth, it just didn't seem right to interrupt the moment with my personal fantasy, even though he probably would've said yes.

Too late now...well, for last year anyway.

Answer 7

would have told jj's daddy that we will be ok. guess i didnt' think about it until it was too late.

:(

You never know what to say, while sitting in a room watching someone 'go'....
but i think, if i had it to do over again, i would have been stronger.

you can never tell someone you 'love them' enough.....

Answer 8

man oh man if i thought the hoe would actually answer the phone i would give her a verbal beating of a lifetime! there are so many things to be said about her slurry self and her fcukstain of a boyfriend!

Answer 9

i wish i had told my Grandfather what i thought of him. i was in awe of him and never got the chance to let him know before the luekemia took him from us. i wish i had let my best friend know how much she meant to me before she was killed in a car accident. i wish had gotten to tell my Grandmother she was my only pen pal and that i loved her and her stories about her life. i wish i had the chance to tell my husband's Grandmother how much she taught me and how much i loved her before her time was through. There are so many things i would have told people in my life but i was young and stupid. its ok though...i take comfort in knowing they know whats in my heart now

Answer 10

u're sucks and stink....nosey and do u think that i didnt know that u're having an affair w my co worker? I should said that to my former manager b4 he got fired last May!!

Answer 11

Couldn't get a hold of the person before they moved out of state....bummer.