I have the feeling like I want another baby.I am only 25 in college still and all I think about is having another baby. I love them, but my patience, lol. I lost a baby last year, but I felt as if I wasn't ready. I kinda feel a void, and my boyfreinds sometimes talks about the baby. (it would of been his first one) I thought maybe in a couple years....but I feel like i can;t wait, is that normal....
2007-08-29 17:52:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
If you have any doubt whatsoever - PLEASE WAIT! It seems like you already know that you should. And perhaps your boyfriend should be your husband before you start having children with him. (This is not an uptight opinion - I just think he should be sincerely committed so the new baby doesn't have to deal with a broken home.) Maybe you should get a cat - it won't keep you up all night. Plus... you are 25! Get out of college and get stable. Get your life together before you have another child and set a good example for the children you already have. Try enjoying them instead.
2007-08-29 18:03:44 · answer #1 · answered by della 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes that is a normal feeling or longing ! sense you lost a baby and you know it would of been his first too ! you long to have another because of your loss and thats normal. But you should think about your other babys now, they need your time and energy too and you do have your hands full right now. Just use your common sense about it is what i would say and i'm not being mean or anything so don't take me wrong on this! you are so young and you have plenty of time to try again later on to have another baby but right now you already have 3 beautiful babys that really need your attention and i think you should focus more on them and spending some time with them!! enjoy them now while they are still small!! another baby would make you more busy and you will have less time for the other kids and your in college so you have to be a real busy mom, how can you find the time to take care of another one? sometimes it helps that longing feeling you have to just start trying to think about the kids you have now and how much they need you and how much more time you can spend with them right now!!! and if you had another baby how it really would be for them?!! I would say wait til they are older , you have your hands full now!! No one can take the place of another remember that!! just be blessed and thankful for the kids you have and enjoy them!! Life is short and they grow up so fast and your young you have plenty of time to have another later on! God bless and good luck to ya!
2007-08-29 18:13:23 · answer #2 · answered by monkeymomma46 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also used to day dream about having another baby, that was when I had two children. I now have three.
I think that you are missing the baby that you lost and want something to fill that empty space.
If you want to have another baby there is nothing wrong with that as long as you can support the baby financially, physically and emotionally.
I understand where you are coming from and I wish you all the best what ever you decide to do.
2007-08-29 18:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by threecherubs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is normal to think this way especially since you lost a baby, I have had 2 miscarriages and 1 healthy pregnancy and after both miscarriages I wanted to get pregnant right away and it was all I could think about. You already have 3 kids and you are still young you still have time to have another one but you have to do it for you and not because your boyfriend wants one and you have to be ready for another one, but it is normal to feel you want to be pregnant again and want another child, even after I had my daughter a few months after i missed being pregnant and wanted to be again.
good luck
2007-08-29 18:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by weezy07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will support for as much babies as possible. It is very interesting to have many kids, provided you are supported economically well..
2007-08-29 18:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by Thomas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋