I was just wondering, how many of you girls orgasm from sex? Because I don't, and never have, but I'm thinking it's just the way I'm made. Sex is great, and I LOVE IT. We've been together for over a year, and we waited 8 months to have sex, so we are commited, and the feelings are DEFINITLEY there, it just won't happen. We usually have sex for an hour or more, and he's definitely not small, and he knows what he's doing, so I'm thinking it's not him.
And yes, I know only something like 30% of women do reach orgasm from vaginal penetration alone, but how many of YOU guys do?=)
2007-08-29 17:36:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I think some of you misunderstood...He gives me orgasms left and right! Just never through vaginal penetration.
2007-08-29 17:43:38 · update #1
Many many many women do NOT orgasm from sex. Now if only women and men would realize that there would be less confusion and less faking orgasms. When you don't orgasm from intercourse it is up to your partner to either manually or orally finish you off to orgasm after intercourse.
2007-08-29 17:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I do but only after I've had a clitoral orgasm. Can you have an orgasm during masturbation when alone?
I have 2 friends that cannot orgasm from penetration alone and need other stimulation at the same time to make it happen. Maybe it would be something to try. Good luck and keep finding new ways to try until it happens!
2007-08-29 17:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am I guess what you might call 1 of the lucky ones. I reach orgasm many times during sex! I think more than 30% of women orgasm, just going on my experience with talking with different women and friends about sex
2007-08-29 17:41:54 · answer #3 · answered by JJ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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I was just wondering, how many of you girls orgasm from sex? Because I don't, and never have, but I'm thinking it's just the way I'm made. Sex is great, and I LOVE IT. We've been together for over a year, and we waited 8 months to have sex, so we are commited, and the feelings...
2015-08-10 05:12:56 · answer #4 · answered by Lenka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
G SPOT!!
G spot and clitoral stimulation, each provide different kinds of orgasms. All mens penises, and all womans vaginas are shaped different, which could be a problem when trying to reach the g-spot.
An hour or more? Good lord, how do you walk? He can't possibly know what he's doing if you don't tell him and you don't figure out the right position for you. Most woman are not comfortable trying new positions, there lies the problem.
Missionary and "on top" positions work best, where there is alot of grinding.
2007-08-29 21:21:30 · answer #5 · answered by Mandy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have always had a problem with this. Sure, most guys can orgasm during sex - imagine if your clitoris was 7 inches long and you got to sink it into a nice, tight, warm hole over and over. I think most women need other stimulation. The way we do it - he does his thing, and it does turn me on, and afterwards I just rub up on his thigh and get off. He likes it, I like it, and everyone is happy.
2007-08-29 17:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by Kate J 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I can only orgasm from clitoral stimulation. Most women are the same way, so you are probably right that it's just the way you are. I hope you are still having orgasms, though. Just because you don't have it during sex doesn't mean he can't help you get there in other ways. ;)
2007-08-29 17:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i've had many before from just sex, but it took a couple of times before it actually happened from vaginal penetration alone. many women never get an orgasm... ever so don't feel not normal if you don't. like you said, it may just be the way you're made.
2007-08-29 17:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by nothing's certain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do! I use to have to get on top to have an 'O'. But now we have found out how to get me there with him on top, and let me tell you it is more intense that way!
O M Goodness! !
We will have been married 12 years in Sept.
Keep trying. And when you do have an 'O' , Watch Out, you only thought it was GOOD before!
2007-08-29 17:46:27 · answer #9 · answered by MIRACLE GIRL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh yes girls do reach orgasm,it's just that they do not understand difference between satisfied and orgasm ed.the state when u r extremely satisfied and you fell that rush in u r vagina..you got it :) rest all is only satisfaction.ask your partner to penetrate the clit a small cherry on the beginning of vagina before intercourse and i beat you will experience the difference have fun :)
2007-08-29 17:41:58 · answer #10 · answered by guyycurious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋