i REALLY need someone to talk too! if anyone can give me some advice, i would really appreciate it. you can feel free to im me sometime also.
2007-08-29 12:50:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How did this happen?
How long have you been married?
How does your husband feel about you?
2007-08-29 12:54:50 · answer #1 · answered by Ski Freedom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, divorce him. It's the America way!
The ugly truth is that more than 67% of marriages will end in divorce. 92% of the time it will be initiated by the woman for no other reason than she is “unfulfilled” – oh, and because she gets the kids, the house, at least ½ the assets and most of his future after tax income for the next 18 years. The man will get raked over in family court. He will lose the house. He will see his kids 2 out of 14 days (if the ex doesn't level unsubstantiated "abuse" claims.) He will be forced to hand over 40-50% of his take-home pay. If he loses his job due to illness or downsizing, the State will toss him in jail. While jailed the arrearage will grow and the state will charge interest. The State will revoke his driver's and professional licenses, make him virtually unemployable.
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2007-08-29 23:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This one rings a bell. I'd say split now before kids are involeved. If kids are already involved stick with it. Making a mrriage last is hard work and t takes a long time to make it happen. Look for his good qualities and try to climb into love with him. Make it last if its worth it, don't break it off its something temporary thats not working. Try and work it out either way.
2007-08-29 20:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by gklein99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean your married to man you dont love how could you marry someone and not love them. See thats why sometimes you need to take it slow before you say i do you wind up with the wrong one. i feel sorry for you because you dont love your husband were you ever inlove with him.theres a difference in loving someone and being in love with them.
best of luck
2007-08-29 23:19:04 · answer #4 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have two choices to rekindle the feelings you had when you married him or to leave him --- it is simplistic i know and does not take into account your circumstances --- it is a big decision -- it is better to have a big pain now and happiness later than a small pain and unhappiness for the rest of your life --- best wishes
2007-08-29 19:57:58 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love him then you need to get a divorce. Marriage should be emotional, spiritual, sexual, and filled with love! They should be that one person you are most comfortable with, if it isn't that then you need to let both of you get on with your lives.
2007-08-29 20:04:44 · answer #6 · answered by AIM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this an arrange marriage, if so that's why you don't love him. If you don't love him, why don't you leave him or divorce. If that's not an option, separate is the solution.
2007-08-29 19:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce. That way you will not be married to him anymore. WOW! What a concept!
2007-08-29 19:56:10 · answer #8 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce...
2007-08-29 20:38:59 · answer #9 · answered by null 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out of the relationship now
i am with ya Good luck to ya
2007-08-29 20:25:58 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋