Let's say you initiated the divorce. You had an affair, you got pregnant and had an abortion because you didn't know if it was your husband's. Then you are trying to trash him in court like it was all his fault. Then it's been 4 months since you left him and you're still angry. Why in the world would you still be angry at him? Considering the fact that you told him before the **** hit the fan that you would be devistated if he left you! Now also consider that your husband found all this out and has had no contact with you for those very reasons. Why would you be mad at him!?
2007-08-29 12:37:37 · 9 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Keep taking your prozac or effexor or whatever crazy people take.
It sounds like yer nuts.
2007-08-29 12:46:31 · answer #1 · answered by SpankyTClown 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's just say that during a divorce and for quite some time after that you will have feelings of anger, hurt, dispair and alot more. Some angry at him because why didn't he try to stop you. Didn't he want to be with you. Trust me I'm sure those are some of the questions you probably ask yourself. I think everyone does even if your the one who choses that path. It's normal. Divorce is not an easy situation to deal with. Over time though it will get easier. Just remember that each day is a new one and don't take that for granted.
2007-08-29 19:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by Lori B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me u have a woman on ur hands that doesnt know what she wants, and is blaming for her lack of control over her own life. She seems like a woman who wants to blame everyone else for her actions and her mistakes, and unfortunately that person is you.. Of course she didnt want u to leave her because she wanted the power, she wanted to be the one that left.. and if u had left her she would of been devestated even if she actually wanted out.. because she wanted to be the one who rejected u.. as if she has pent up anger towards u or resentment for something,.. so she's blaming u.. for her life being crap cause she made horrible decisions.. instead of realizing she's caused most if not all the problems she's having.. its always easier to point fingers rather then take the blame..
2007-08-29 19:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What?
You cheated on him. You already showed you didn't care.
Now leave the guy alone so he can find a new wife. No kids? Then leave his family alone too so the new wife won't have to keep dealing with you either!
2007-08-29 19:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That person's anger is misdirected at the ex-husband. It is clearly being targeted at herself...as it should be.
2007-08-29 19:52:02 · answer #5 · answered by Mathsorcerer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its because she didn't get to leave on her terms and looking like the good guy.
2007-08-29 19:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because people have to vilify those that they left to feel better about what they've done. They have to somehow feel that their own actions were somehow justified.
2007-08-29 22:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by coolmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why blame him it's your fault you cheated and got pregnant not his ! you need help
2007-08-29 22:31:39 · answer #8 · answered by southernlove25 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My question is why do you care?
2007-08-29 19:49:40 · answer #9 · answered by Needtoknow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋