Why do we fail then?

Question

Men and women are tests for eachother? Why do we fail? Why do we have sex and hold hands and want to mate ?! It's nature, but it's nature we should go against.

I cannot stand it. I vow not to look at a woman again. Now you all dont twist your mind, I do not like guys.

I am tired of bullshit thinking of sex, love, all that bull ****!

It's a waste of life, and I want to pass the test this time.

I hope I enlighten someone.

I enlightened myself.

Thanks matt I'm just going to do that.

queen, take your own preachings. Man and women aren't meant to be. It's a test. You were born, your parents failed you now you failed yourself.

queen, you neo nazi liberal, I've only had one relationship before and we broke off because I was moving away, about one thousand miles away. We were happy. But now I have opened my eyes and I know it's not meant to be. No one is, I do not even like the girl I onced like. I passed my own test finally. Maybe you need to take another class.

ronin you're non existant.

Answer 1

Stop thinking about sex and relationships and this will be an easy task for you. Think about something else.

Answer 2

And that is probably why you "failed". You do not get to be the test taker and the teacher. Enlightening yourself is not enlightenment, it's repeating information you think you know to yourself, and then realizing you may have a valid point, but doing no research to prove it is valid, and therefore you end up assuming that your original theory is true, when in fact there is no evidence in the entire history of the world that says that men and women are tests for each other. Now, while going into a radical debate with someone about theory's of why men and women should or shouldn't be together is wildly appealing, I would much rather do it with someone who isn't into making up reasons why his last relationship didn't work, instead of just accepting the fact that it was something a little more in-depth, than I failed the test, therefore I enlightened myself. Have a good day.

Answer 3

Find a nice girl and do not have sex until you are ready to marry her. Abstain from sex, because sex ruins many things about a relationship. Make sure you are compatible. Your wants are the same. Don't compromise for looks or sexual feelings or money or potential. It helps to laugh together. Eat together. Relax together. Work together. Drive for hours in a car together. Visit each others relatives together.

Most people live together sexually and then get married and realize that they never knew each other. All they had was sex and sex got old.

Answer 4

Sex is only to procreate. The rest is a fairytale invented for our own selfish desires. Unfortunately the almighty dollar has made slaves of us all and the sex industry has brainwashed the masses into believing that we have to have it.

Answer 5

To much focus on it and the idea of love and the ideal mate. Friendship has similiar problems though haved how to keep the good feelings between friends and how to be interesting or to keep a freinship.

Answer 6

there is no test

there is no enlighten

there is no fail or succeed

you are sadly illusioned

except even "sadly" is an illusion.

We are animals, animals mate, that's it. You have allowed modern culture to add all this extra crap to it. If you have decided that you are done, fine. But don't put all this cosmic significance to it like you've figured out what we all are too stupid to see, lol. You are the one deluding yourself.

Answer 7

Read "What is Worth While." It's a great lecture given in 1893, and will confirm your sentiments well.

Answer 8

i agree with jeancommunicates