I sleep with my friends brother? I think he's sweet and we totally flirt alot, both of us want one another but both of us have been hurt to much to want a relationship. Is it bad if i hook up with him even though im friends with his sister?
2007-08-29 10:44:09 · 23 answers · asked by ahblazamayes001 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi, thats completely up to you. You need to consider how things may turn out if you two were to break up. Like will it cause friction between you and your friend. You also have to consider your friend being stuck in the middle. This CAN happen more so if things arent going too well between you and him. He may ask his sister to pass something onto you aswel as you may feel like you can talk to her about him rather than him yourself. This wont be fair on your friend. Also consider your time together. Remember your friend......friends are always there for you so dont shut her out. I would say its not such a good idea but it is entierly up to you.
2007-08-29 10:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by Mystic Magic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, you girls are soooooo misinformed about life; First of all, if she really is your friend she should understand that there's attraction between you and her bro'. Now, unless she believes that you're not a good match for her brother, she should have no objections.
Attraction between opposite sexes is inevitable, wether it is someones brother, friend, cousin, father, mother or whatever. Now the only way there should be any objection is if the relationship is carried out in secrecy. If you communicate to her how you feel, and her brother does the same, can you really feel guilty?
Now, if she is aware and still objects due to stubborness, who is the one being a bad friend?
I mean, come on look at Romeo and Juliet. They defied their families, and even though they were labeled negatively by their relatives.Their love was more genuine and it prevailed and thought both families a very powerful lesson... To accept others as they are, because people never, ever, ever change.
They might change, but they change back sooner or later!
Of course there is exceptions to every rule but most things in this universe are consistent!
Good luck, just be honest and don't lie to your friends, and most importantly...DON'T LIE TO YOURSELF!!
2007-08-29 10:55:20 · answer #2 · answered by HEC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're a bad friend for doing that, if you are both single and not committed to anyone else. But it is a good idea to talk to your friend about what you did so she wouldn't feel like you're hiding something from her esp. because it has something to do with her brother. Since she is your friend, she might even like the idea that you are up to his brother.
2007-08-29 10:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by hot_filipina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necisarrily, it depends what your friend thinks. And I don't believe it makes you a bad person. It may be a bad decision, but one bad decision does not make you a bad person or friend. Although I wouldn't suggest doing it, especially if you aren't going to have a relationship with him
2007-08-29 10:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by catie; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your choices always have consequences. Remember that. Will this affect your friendship which should always mean more then getting a piece. However, if you do decide to do this I would keep it quiet otherwise your reputation is going to go way down and people are going to be talking.
2007-08-29 10:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by Mommy2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not bad. It's not like she's interested in him. Depending on how things work out you might be in for some awkward moments in the future but nothing too serious.
2007-08-29 10:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might not take it bad. I've had friends try to hook me up with their brothers. but i would let her know whats goin on before she finds out from someone else... because if she finds out from someone else she might feel like she cant trust you to tell the truth
2007-08-29 10:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by jenhicks87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, but you should let her know that you 2 have something going on. I mean, it's not like your sleeping with her man! hehe anyway, just try to leave her out on the details cuz she'll get grossed out! Good luck......
2007-08-29 10:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Likely you will have to choice at some point him or her - and sounds like you treasure the relationship with her but he would just be sex for convenience.
My council would be to stay clear of getting involved with him
2007-08-29 10:49:03 · answer #9 · answered by keezy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yess!
its not worth losing ur friend . everyone says guys come and go but friends stay. and its true so dont ruin that over some guy thats gona leave u then u`ll never have a ur friend back
2007-08-29 10:51:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋