okay so me and her dont really talk to often do to the fact that we are so diff. im really chill, im not a crazy party animal and im not like some emo eather. shes has me really worry tho everytime i come in she completly freaks out like she was doing something bad and secretive.She also writes in this like journal alot and i wanna read it so badly but im scare she might catch me, she has this really weird stare and one time i caught her staring at me while i was sleeping she said she was just looking for a way to tell me i snore but I DONT SNORE! so she was lieing, i was going through the loundry and she had blood all over her shirt and jeans which im not even gona ask about, she made a fire in this room last week! said it was an accident, she seems depressed but is even more deep than that, i tried helping her but she doesnt open up she just creeps me out so i just try to be secretive about it, shes quite but i know she wasnt always like this, i use to see her around.
2007-08-29 09:10:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i cant switch roomates eather cuz i told the education board and they said i was going to have to deal with it some way or another,, in her classes shes also weird quite and just idk she does so many weird stuff those are just a few,,,she also always wakes up at 4am to go somewhere and comes back around 6am ,,,,, wat the heck is going on?
2007-08-29 09:11:48 · update #1
shes not gothic eather shes pretty average but u can tell shes not so average eather not like a high school cheerleader just like the average girls that arent really all that hypper or all that depressed
2007-08-29 09:13:38 · update #2
i kno!!!! i brought up that whole columbine ad virginia tech thing but they said she was not threat unless she actually tried to do sumthing to me and they know about the fire she made it seem like an accident but i kno it was a lil more than that
2007-08-29 09:17:29 · update #3
i dont thinnk she suspects how creepd out i am by her i can hide thing very well but the thing is that she does stuff that are tooo strange to let go so dun say to just hold on in there cuz is impossible everyday is a lil bit more strange... she also keeps on like washing her sheets every goddamn day it doesnt bother me but y tho! kjashda im tire
2007-08-29 09:21:12 · update #4
1st...do not stoop to the level and read her journal. That is private.
2nd...it will build character to learn how to deal with someone like this as an adult. Speak to her kindly about your concerns and tell her you want to try and have good living arrangements for the year. It is all in how you approach. Do it in a neutral environment, over coffee or something. Don't confront her in the space you live in.
2007-08-29 09:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by Brownie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Place a restraining order on her...that way they will have to change your rooms!! Tell them exactly what has been going on, but try to make it more dramatic...they don't just give those things away!! Also tell the school people that you are agoraphobic and that she is causing you distress and since then you have had to go to therapy....they will want to avoid a law suit...so they will change you!! Best of luck with the creepy chick...Don't read her journal....she will probably kill you in her sleep or something!!!! Be safe!!
2007-08-29 09:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, tell them she's setting fires in the dorm. That should get it taken care of.
Plus, if you really feel she's a threat to your personal safety, they must do something about it. Get your parents involved. They're paying a lot of money so you can learn in a safe environment. Money talks!
2007-08-29 09:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe the authorities wouldn't listen to you after Columbine and Virginia Tech.
2007-08-29 09:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by Capricorn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...that sounds rough. I was in a tempory triple my freshman year and I hated one girl!...we were totally different....she wasn't like your roommate though. I would maybe talk about it with your advisor and see what they suggest doing...and if it's a consisting problem, contact the room and board people and demand they switch you out...
2007-08-29 09:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by Yanks4Life23519 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one if that is her journal stay out of her things tht is not your proprety stop worring about what she is doing in mind your own business in please what ever you do stop snooping around in stuff that dont belong to you that is called invadeing her privacy you can get taken to court for this are get kick out of the college you are in write now in a question for you how is it that you can firgure out that you dont snore in you cant say she is lieing get a tape recored in tape your self in that way you can tell are not in just bevery careful of what you are doing you can get real hurt in t
2007-08-29 09:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move and save all the drama and you need to tell the board you are uncomfortable of living there and be done with it . good luck .
2007-08-29 09:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange. Maybe you should copy everything she does until it drives her insane. Maybe if you both ask to switch rooms something will happen.
2007-08-29 09:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by kiersten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep to yourself until you can get a new roommate. Keep your stuff locked up and don't read her journal or mess with any of her stuff.
2007-08-29 09:14:18 · answer #9 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd talk to a counselor on your campus and describe how she acts. Perhaps there are services on campus that could deal with her.
2007-08-29 09:15:33 · answer #10 · answered by K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋