2007-08-29 05:24:38 · 41 answers · asked by misty beach 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
major groundage.
2007-08-29 11:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by K S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear child....let me tell you that sneaking out at 13 not only is typical immaturity, but also very dangerous. Most children at your age that are running around on the streets either are kidnapped or raped and murdered by some sicko who lusts after kids. Believe me when I say I have done exactly what you are considering doing. I work a crisis job and let me say that I have seen more than one kid your age dead. Trust me, there is plently of time to explore the dating world when you are old enough to understand the consequences of your behavior. Be smart and think about how important "dating" is over the possibility of getting hurt or worse.
2007-08-29 05:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by Amber H 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sneaking out is not the best option for inspiring trust from your parents in your ability to make good choices. Your willingness to sneak out just supports their theory that you are not ready. Why the rush? I'm sure you are allowed to go to group functions, yes? Hang out with the guy with a bunch of his and your friends instead. Don't lose any of the trust your parents may have for you, or your own self respect.
If you DO decide to go ahead and do it anyway....PLEASE make sure that SOMEONE knows where you are going and who you are with. If something happens there would be no way of contacting...or finding you otherwise.
Please stay safe and think about your choices wisely.
2007-08-29 06:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are planning on sneaking out to be with a boy, your punishment may very well be an unplanned pregnancy that you are not physically nor emotionally ready for. If you think that you are not going to have sex, then how are you going to handle being alone with a boy and nobody is around or even knows that you are with him. What if he pressures you or even forces you into sex. You may say I know him, he won't do that. If he was worried about rules he wouldn't want you to sneak around to be with him. Boys do that because they want sex, not because they have some deep love for a girl.
2007-08-29 06:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by future dr.t (IM) 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should consider the fact that your parents will no longer be able to trust you. Forget about the punishment. Your parents a absolutely correct in not letting you date at 13. Sorry, I know that was not the answer you were looking for. Couldn't you go to the movies or the mall during the day and go with a group of friends?
2007-08-29 05:37:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to listen to your parents sweety. No sneaking out. It isn't safe. What are your parents to do, if you don't show up the next day? Maturity is accepting where you are at. You will date, you are just too young. Regardless of the punishment, it is not as bad in comparison to the amount of trust you'll lose from your parents. Trust is hard to re-build and if you start losing your mind now, when you truly are ready to date they won't let you because you have proved to be immature. Think this out. It isn't worth it to loose your parents trust for a night of freedom. It will only get worse. Trust me. You should join a school club, or church group so you can attend teen events so you are at least going out, but in a safe environment. Good luck!
2007-08-29 05:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by Brain 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
a reminder my friend snuck oyut one time he thought he was cool but when he didnt show up at school the next day i though oh hes sick or grounded. the next day he wasnt there. then i got worried. when i got home that day i was watchin the news about a boy that boy that got kidnapped. so i called my friends house his dad picked up i asked him where my friend was. he told me he was kidnapped. they found him 2 days later. in a gutter. plz dont make the same mistake he was my best best best best frined knew him since as long as i can remember. plz dont sneak out. if something happens to u. u might not see ur mom or dad or ur friends ever again. this is comin form a 13 year old.
2007-08-29 11:24:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 14 and not allowed to go on dates but sneaking out is a big no no
2007-08-29 07:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the top five most common punishments are...
1. more chores around the house
2. getting grounded for 2 months or more
3. an embarrassing, long,and boring lecturer
4. no friends of t.v for 1-4 months
5.no dessert after dinner for 1-6 months
(I should know this well I have been busted count less times don't do this it is easy to be caught and you will get into trouble.)
2007-08-29 08:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by kyle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should rethink that whole sneaking out idea...cuz it doesn't matter what your parents say you could be killed raped or really hurt and your parent wouldn't know where to start looking for ya at all...i think you should just talk to your parents if you want treated like an adult you should act like one not a stupid child sneaking out
maybe set up group things and maybe ask to have a few ppl over to watch a movie that way your parents could get ot know your friends think b4 you are stupid remember your gonna want a drivers lic. and a car some day they are gonna look back and realize you aren't responsible enough
2007-08-29 05:51:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really matters how late you sneak out and if you even gat caught and if i were you i wouldn't sneak out i would tell your parents that your spending the night at a girls house (make up a girls name like libby that way your parents don't try to call) that way you can stay out and when you plan to come home spend the night at one of your real friends house.
it always works for me
2007-08-29 06:42:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋