Hi All,
Let me to explain you my sad and strange love story and marriage I knew six years ago. It's so recent and far in same time but I will never forget this woman who, in same time, gave me a lot of destroyed my life.
Firstly, sorry for my bad english, I am french and english is not my first language but I hope you ll understand me well. I knew my ex wife Linda in the end of 1999 on a yahoo chat. We began to correspond together, to write emails, chat on messenger, phone us, and we falled in love before to meet us "in real". Our first meeting was in Sept 2000. and during two years, I came in USA (and she came one time in France) to visit her and we decided to marry us. She spoused me in Sept 20th 2002 in Tulsa (Ok) cause she was from this city. Anyway, we decided to live in France (we were agree the both) after our wedding but I was obliged to come back in France alone to find us a large flat for my new family.
You can imagine the end of this story. She waited during a long period her coming (I waited one year) and after one year of a long waiting, I told me she wished to divorce but before she had to work in Australia during six months. I had no news at all from her during six months and after this period, I received an email from her to tell me she began the process to divorce and I DID MUST to sign it. I ran to sign the divorce forms cause I dreamed to keep in touch with her you see but after to have signed and sent this form, she totally dissapeared and since I had no news at all from her.
She gave me a lot of problems to support cause she was free in USA (the divorce form was signed and approved) but unforturtunaly she had to send this official divorce form to the french embassy to approve it in France too but she never sent it and I stayed married in France like a "dumb" (sorry for the term). I was obliged to pay expensive international lawyer to divorce correctly in France. Her divorce form was signed to the end of 2003 and I was divorced only in 2006.
I regret nothing of my relationship with her, It was just the best love story of my whole life and I consider her like the woman of my life. Anyway, I never understood why she married me and divorced suddently. She told me there had no others men in his life and promised me she ll be faith to me until our divorce (maybe not after I guess). She just told me she was not ready to be a wife and she prefered to do not share her life with someone else... I stayed just married with her (in the same place than her) just two weeks (during our honeymoon), but I admit I did not wish to divorce at all and I regret it. I was too kind and I signed just cause I dreamed to keep in touch with her but she did not have the same point of view. Feel you free to give me your personnal opinion about my story. Sometimes it's very good for me to share my story with people.
Hope to read you soon
Marc
2007-08-29 04:26:11 · 4 answers · asked by marcalex95 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i am sorry that you had that experience with her. Apparently she must have felt she made amistake. i am not sure why either. But you are lucky she did not take nothing from you and that you are fine and well. It apparently was not on both sides real love.someday you will find someone who truly loves you and i wish you luck. you sound very nice man and i hope you are fine after all this mess and you sure have patience take care
2007-09-01 16:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You story is not what I would say is a true love story as much as story about human growth. Sadly so many people have an image of marriage and love that just is not real. We dream of fairy tale endings and blame our spouses when we don't feel we are as happy I we believe we should be. It appears that people are becoming more self and with their selfishness the divorce rate rises. I believe your wife did not and possible does not understand the subtlety of love. marriage is not a dream, but work. The work is so much harder than anything we will ever get paid to do, but it a million times more valuable. For your heart I am sorry for what you went through, but where there is a single heart like yours there is another who will love it ever so. You've been touched by the sorrow of love and hopefully you will find a truer love before your heart hardens. Now live your life, because love finds us when we are living not healing.
2007-08-29 05:06:08 · answer #2 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is simple...you fell head over heels in love and she didn't. She felt remorse and wanted out....the reasons why really don't matter, the fact that she didn't want to be with you is the only fact that you have to focus on. It is probably nothing that you did wrong, you probably really are a great guy, however she had other ideas about her life than you had. I am sorry that this happened to you....move forward, it is better to have love and lost than to never have loved at all.
2007-08-29 04:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by Rein 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over it and go on with your life. She has...
2007-08-29 04:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋