If a person your going to get together with already has 2 kids, how do you cope with that?
2007-08-29 04:14:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Run dude!! That's baggage you don't need.
2007-08-29 04:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by hunting4u 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well you have to make sure that is what you wont because it is hard to get into a relationship with kids already not so much when their young but as the kids get older thats when you have youre problems ! so you better think about it and make sure thats what you wont good luck
2007-08-29 11:35:17 · answer #2 · answered by foxy lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with the lady and see how she handles situations such as discipline because if they are some bad A$$ kids I say RUN!!!!! If the kids are well mannered and respectful get to know them.
2007-08-29 11:22:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't get with them if you haven't spent any time bonding with them first too! It's not just you and her it's also THEM!!
Hold off until you have seen if you and the 2 kids can bond and if you bond well. It will save bad feelings in the future.
2007-08-29 11:25:21 · answer #4 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love those kids as much as you love that person. They will always love those kids so never cause trouble with them. Blood is thicker than water.
2007-08-29 11:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by Maria 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, what's the problem? What do you mean "cope"?
You need to either (a) grow up a lot or (b) find someone else.
2007-08-29 11:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by AngiesHusband 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well it's very simple...You either learn to accept them with the children or you leave. Because trust me if they are any kind of decent person their children will always come first.
2007-08-29 12:40:32 · answer #7 · answered by TABBY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make the choice to accept the fact that the person already has children...if you can't deal with it...then don't get involved.
2007-08-29 11:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you like kids it shouldn't matter...
but you need to make sure the kids like you...
it might be harder for them to cope than for you to...
2007-08-29 11:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda F 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have to ask then maybe you should end it now before you get in too deep.
2007-08-29 11:23:33 · answer #10 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if u love the kids and her, go for it... you'll definitely enjoy a family life..Good LUCK!!
2007-08-29 11:38:36 · answer #11 · answered by back2future 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋