Where is the most realistic place below to meet a new person (girl) at?

Question

Grocery Store
Restaurant
Park
Galleries
Gym
Mall
Bowling alley
Laundromat
Dance Class
Book Clubs
Private Party

Answer 1

A private party is the best place, because then you can get some background info from the party's hosts, who invited everyone. You can be sure that this is not their friend the ex-con. ;-)

Most of your other suggestions involve pick-ups, and if you were really good at that, you wouldn't need help here. You only have a few seconds with someone in a mall or grocery store, so you have to be really smooth to walk away with a phone number or e-mail.

Here are some other ideas that work: Volunteer for a political candidate you support. You already have something in common with anyone you meet. Or work with a charity, like Habitat for Humanity, where you get to spend time with a bunch of people doing something worth while. Or, go to a group sport activity--a bike club, a ski trip, or whatever. Again, you have something in common and you can spend some time getting to know the person.

People are out there looking to meet YOU. Just place yourself where they can find you.

Answer 2

Frankly, it depends on what type of girl you're looking for... and what kind of relationship you're searching for. I would say the gym is the best place to meet someone new for a few reasons. One, it's an open body language situation. You're more receptive to people and people are more receptive of you if you keep your arms uncrossed, don't stand with your feet together, etc. Secondly, while working out, your hormones, endorphins, and adrenaline are hitting daily highs, making you more receptive to love and likeness. Beware, though: seeing someone stunningly attractive for the first time is a similar process to brain damage, neurologists claim. Just don't be running too fast on the treadmill when you do see her!

Answer 3

Do what you want to do anything but staying home. Meet all kinds of people not just girls who are single and in your age group. Even a 70 year old man could have a granddaughter he would like you to meet or you could be helping a 50 year old woman with something and her daughter drop in and love that you were nice to her mom. I don't see meeting people at galleries or malls.
I tend to meet men while fishing or at the gym but met my boyfriend at a singles group in 1986. Now if I was serious I would look on line because you only meet others who are looking for you.
What you are looking for will help you decide where to look. If you are looking for a one night stand bars and parties are your best bet, if you are looking for a soul mate, where your soul is is a best bet. You want someone who drinks and does drugs you will find them more likely in bars than in colleges and if you want some who loves opera you are more likely to find them at the opera.

Answer 4

First you have to ask your self what do you like to do. Then maybe you can find someone doing the same thing you do. Also sometimes when you stop looking that right person just falls into your lap. I would also try online dating places or singles chat groups or singles event groups that way when you get there you know that the person you are talking to is in the same boat you are in.

Answer 5

I would go with the grocery store first, then a book club/store, when you meet them there, you are pretty sure they are reasonably intelligent as well as able to care for themselves. To me, that's a huge turn on.

Answer 6

Through other friends. Although some of your ideas sound good too. Especially if you are really interested in these things. Meeting someone who loves what you love would be great!

Answer 7

Well, if you're of age, check out some local clubs. If not, ask your co-workers if they have any single friends. In-person intros are always the best way.

Answer 8

if i were to pick only one of these, i would say laundromat because it says you're a man that cares about your belongings and is responsible enough to do his own laundry and can function independently.

a park maybe not so much because you don't want to look like you're trolling for chicks. so if you went to the park, bring a dog or a blanket and book.

Answer 9

there all realistic, but people attend private parties to meet people.

Answer 10

i met my EX at a book club but she was a little physcho

classes are good so are galleries and party