thinks of you? I can't help thinking about him all the time. I wonder if I'm being obsessive. I think how handsome he is, our conversations, how he looks at me, our lovemaking. It's such a good feeling. I want to ask him what he thinks, but I know guys are not into this kind of thing. So guys, what is it about your girl that you think (other than s ex) when you are not w/her?
2007-08-29 03:29:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I just called my husband and asked him what he thinks about, about me when he is at work. Today he said he was thinking about last night when we were watching television laughing about this lady we saw on a show.....she was really crazy. We laughed until we cried!!! Today he is thinking about this...yesterday he said he was thinking about what we did in the morning before he went to work. They think about us. Ask your hubby, you might be suprised...i just was.
2007-08-29 03:36:02 · answer #1 · answered by Rein 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are being obsessive. It sounds like you really love your guy, and he fills your every thought. Now, if you get so caught up with these thoughts that you are unable to work, then you might have a problem. There is no shame in asking him how he thinks and feels about you. It's important communication between couples. If you don't have good open communication, the rest of the relationship will deteriorate rapidly.
I think about my husband all the time. I love him and he loves me.
2007-08-29 10:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by notarycat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he show you in other ways? He must be very handsome for you to think about him all the time. Do you have a job, something that you can redirect your energy to? Be careful, if he never is made to want you and it is a given what he wants when he wants, the thrill of the chase is gone, and he may look elsewhere.
Be a little less "attached to his hip" and more of a space-giving person.
2007-08-29 10:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by I tell it like it is 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. when we start a relationship and love and feelins are showing... My case through my relationship im in right now, i was feeling uneasy feeling and maybe hurt of wonder if my partner is thinking about me or not and what is she feelig towards me and i know what u mean especially when i know she was out of a relationship., its been 8 months and i still feel the same for her and think about her and think how lucky i am and all... But now its a smile on my face, because when u give time... things will come ventuallyu :) So give time and see what he feels... :) Good luck!
2007-08-29 10:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by Jin-Lamus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder at times what my man thinks of me. But, he drops me little hints every now and then. Guys aren't very vocal about things like that. But, sometimes my hubby gets sentimental and decides to tell me and I love it. I don't want to hear it all the time though because if I did I would think he were lying.
2007-08-29 10:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by Torey♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been together? Don't obsess too much.....you might scare him off. You can tell what a guy thinks of you by how he shows you off to his friends. Does he want to take you to a lot of places to meet friends and family? Or does he only want to spend time with you alone.
Make him think he is lucky to have YOU at least as much as you tell him how lucky YOU are to have him.
2007-08-29 10:38:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I am not with my lady, I think, thank god a moment of peace and quiet. I mean its great to be with her but all this "what are you thinking" and "what do you feel" is overbearing. Why can't women just enjoy things and not constantly need to review and be assured of everything.
2007-08-29 10:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you're being obsessive.
We're wired differently than you.
If she's a sweetie, then we think what a sweet girl you are.
If she's a biach, then we're stuck all day thinking what a biach she is.
I hope you're a sweetie.
Good luck !
2007-08-29 10:40:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My guy told me he loves it when I'm drivin and if a car lets me go and I say "thanks" like with a hand signal or by flashingmy lights - I actually say thanks out loud, even though they can;t hear me, and it makes him smile. He told me he always liked it.
see guys have feelings too lmfao... but yeah if he said those things all the time it'd get annoying so don't worry.
2007-08-29 10:34:44 · answer #9 · answered by Ella S-class baby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awwwweee I think I'm going to watch Steel Magnolias tonight... tears!
2007-08-29 10:40:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋