ok i am really shy at these things
i always am ready to ask but then my sister pops up and like i dont know i just dont really have any guts to ask my mom :'( i am really shy at these things i dont know what i should do!
2007-08-29 02:41:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
tell her you are flat chested and you need to have big boobies
2007-08-29 02:45:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 12⤋
If all else fails you can always tell her its cold at school (or work or wherever) and a padded bra will hide anything that shows. Once that barrier is broken it won't matter.
As others have suggested, just ask to go bra shopping and slip it in there. If questioned about bra choice, use above excuse.
2007-08-29 10:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say "Mom, is this a good time to have a talk?" and when she says "yes", tell her what is going on in your mind, or what you need. She doesn't know that you need to be heard, so she isn't listening. Let your voice be known, learn that now. People don't read minds, even when we want them too. Open up that line of communication with her, and you will both benefit from the relationship.
Here is anoyther thought....maybe you should slip mama a note....takes a bit of pressure off you.
Best wishes to you!
2007-08-29 09:51:25 · answer #3 · answered by tahndi_99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell Mom you want to speak to her in private. Chose when she is in kitchen or when you are helping with chores.
Then say you want a different bra.That u need her help chose one.
Ask her to take you bra shopping.
Then try those; see what she says. If she does not think you have one, try convince her. But Mothers understand and are usually right you know.
Just don't worry. All girls have these problems.
2007-08-29 10:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
every girl goes through getting a bra, so dont be embarresed to ask her (she went through it too)
just say "mom, can we go bra shoppin, I need some new ones" and then when your at the store (i recommend victorias secret, they have small sizes and their really comfy) point out a padded bra and say "ive been thinking and i really want to move up to a padded bra"
she should understand <33
2007-08-29 09:50:00 · answer #5 · answered by Jumper ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you want a padded bra..shes your mother talk to her, Don't be shy. Your gonna need her alot in your life. First tell her you want a more open relationship with her..she will be happy because she wont be in the dark about your life..then tell her about more personal issues when you feel more comfortable.
2007-08-29 09:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you should ask your mom to take you bra shopping, not to get you a padded bra. that way you can go with her and try on many different styles, so she will think that you have tried your options and you feel that this is the most comfortable to wear and that it looks the best with your clothes. Hopefully she will agree and you will be all set!
2007-08-29 09:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by Lunaloveydovey 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
the next time you are in the store, pick one up and say mom do you think this is a nice bra? then put it into your shopping cart and go about your day.
2007-08-29 10:26:23 · answer #8 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you have to say is.. hey mom i need a new bra.. can you take me to get one.. then when your there pick out the padded one
2007-08-29 09:49:57 · answer #9 · answered by y3@h $oN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just say to her i need a new bra, can we go bra shopping?? and when you go just pick up a padded one.
2007-08-29 09:58:22 · answer #10 · answered by UnboundClouds 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohkay first of all... dont listen to the person on top of me. lol.
anyways.. you do have boobs right ? then when your at the store with bras then just bring one up to her and ask her if she'll buy it for you. whne i got mine, my mom just bought one for me randomly.
2007-08-29 09:48:57 · answer #11 · answered by marahisrockin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋